i was at schook today and i was walkin in the halway skippin class and one of the finest boys in schol came up to me and grabbed my butt i turned around and was bout to hit him but he grabbed my hands and pushed me against a wall he said give me a kiss i said no he said give me a kss now i pushed him away and started walkin away then he just ran up on me and shoved me on the wall agian he said " i told u twice give me a kiss" i objected but he kissed me anyway on my mouth and when he pulled away i was about to run but he said dont tell he didnt hurt me but i dont think that was rite to do what should i do.
2007-02-06 14:38:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
his older brother is said to be a rapeist
and i nevea thought he would do somethng
like dis i known himsince the 3rd grade
2007-02-06 14:39:26 · update #1
I think you should keep it a secret because what good is it going to do by telling when they can do it again.I hope things go well good luck.
2007-02-06 17:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Abstinent 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell a teacher that you are close too. That way it would be more easier to talk about the situation. Even though you would like to keep quiet since he is "one of the finest boys in school" it doesnt matter. You never know if your the only victim or if he has done it any other girls. Tell someone not only for your sake but for others too!
2007-02-06 22:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lisaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. Tell a close friend, a parent, the principal or someone you trust. You need to tell someone or else it will only get worse and he'll keep getting away with it. Who knows if he hasn't done something to another girl already. I made a mistake of not telling someone when this boy I kno did almost the same thing and for that I almost got raped in a school staircase. Please let someone know whats going on. I wouldn't want you to be in the same situation I was in.
2007-02-06 23:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by cutet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your silence will empower him to do more, maybe to you, maybe to someone else. Speak up and speak often, as long as it takes to get someone to listen. The rapist comment may or may not be a lie. Do not let that influence you. The facts are: He forced himself on you. You refused and resisted. You told him "no". These are all of the neccessary elements for assault, which is a crime. Only you can put the stop to his behavior, right now. Later, may be too late.
2007-02-06 22:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by emberstoashes_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell a teacher, principal or counselor in your school who you trust. I know it's horrible when a guy takes advantage of you, but in some ways you have to consider yourself lucky that it didn't go further. Now it's your responsibility to tell a trusted adult so that this guy doesn't hurt another girl tomorrow or the next day.
2007-02-07 19:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST tell someone in authority and let him know you will not put up with this. This is a bully and it will not stop unless you do. Or if you are not up to this, kindly let him know that people knows about it and ask him not to do this again. You notice I said kindly in a nice tone but firm. I have found if you back a dog in a corner he will bit. Then if doesn't stop you have no choice but to go to someone in authority.
2007-02-06 22:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by perk472002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well technically he's a rapist too.
You need to:
Tell the school principal what happened.
Stop skipping classes.
Talk to your english teacher about some remedial classes.
Learn how to defend yourself.
2007-02-06 23:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Guidance Conselor about what had happened. That's the best way since he is violent. You should not let him to be worse to others in the future.
2007-02-07 00:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well follow every bodys advice if i were u iwould tell the principal and the teachers and if you school has camaras the you have a proof my friend
good luck
2007-02-06 23:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by solanor2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this only escalate. Tell an adult before he does something worse to another girl!!!
2007-02-06 22:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋