All of my friends have had their first kiss, their first boyfriend and have even held the guys hand. I have never had any thing like that before not to mention never given a guy i liked a hug. Is there something wrong with me? I mean i am friendly to people, i dont have a bad rep, i am known as the smart girl that is nice to everyone and i dont hang out with bad people. is there something wrong with me?
2007-02-06 14:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing's wrong with u sweetie. It will happen when it's meant to happen. It's kinda like when we start to develop don't be in such a rush because it will happen when it's meant to happen
2007-02-06 14:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't mention your age-but it doesn't matter-you are known as nice and have a good rep? Maybe others respect you for that-there is nothing wrong with you at all-simply has not happened-yet. Time takes time-there really is more to relationships than the hugs and kisses and all that,sounds like you are good at conducting yourself-so continue to follow your own good judgement and morals, In your impatience don't make a mistake you will regret-it happens different for everyone-different stages and all that you know? What is it you really want? If it is approval thru momentary physical attraction-you may end up feeling worse later-used or embarrassed and add to your feeling of something being 'wrong' with you. Allow yourself the freedom of taking time to make choices-really-although it feels hard to wait,relationships work best when you work on your own self-in terms of worth,what you value and what you stand for -relationships are about sharing not just getting from another-If you are young, then it is normal for others around you to be doing things first-then again,not everyone is-just seems like it-and some may be going too fast,because they think they should.Relax-it will happen eventually-it always does-and then there are other worries that come along with that! Good luck and take care-I think you are just fine.
2007-02-06 22:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Darla E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you.
Being smart and nice are good qualities to have.
Your first kiss should be special, and it will happen when you meet the right person. Don't be in a hurry because you don't want to waste it on just anybody.
Don't compare yourself to your friends because it does not matter when they have kissed or dated. You want to make sure your first boyfriend is a good guy who is right for you. It will happen for you when the time is right.
Just keep being smart, nice, and stay away from bad people. You'll be glad that you did in the long run.
2007-02-06 22:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Lol, there is nothing wrong with you at all. You know, it might be good that you haven't gone far yet. It means that you have higher standards.
Don't worry. Someday, soon, a guy will come around. You'll like him, he'll like you. It really is all about timing. Where you are, when you're there, who you're with... But, If you want to make a move now, make sure you let it be known that you want to date now. Put yourself in more situations that involve guys you would consider.
2007-02-06 22:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me, u r perfectly normal. y would u think that way? I have never actually given a guy a hug and I am still considered normal....
2007-02-06 22:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by snehasarasani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na I'm never kissed hugged held-hands with a girl but i don't care i will when I'm at least seventeen:)
2007-02-06 23:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by DarkDejection(JF) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy? Maybe you need to loosen up a little around guys.
2007-02-06 22:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you. just hang in there. it will happen when it's meant to happen.
2007-02-06 22:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no mabey you should ask some one out
2007-02-06 22:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your time will come be patient
2007-02-06 22:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋