My Best Friend is gay, and all he talks about is well you know and I'm sick of hearing him talking about "whoopy" with his bf, I really don't want to hear it, how can I ask him to please quit?
2007-02-06 14:10:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would tell him that you're happy that he has someone special in his life but he should be really spending those special moments and talking about them with that special someone. It's not your place to hear it. Say, "Buddy, I'm happy for you. But I'm just not the type of guy who likes to hear about that stuff. I'm glad you and your boyfriend are getting along great. And I'm glad you feel like you can share this with me, but I really don't feel comfortable hearing what goes on behind the bedroom door anymore. Sorry dude."
2007-02-06 14:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say you don't feel comfortable talking about sex-gay or straight. Give him a chance to cool his jets, and If he doesn't respect your wishes afterward tell him you warned him and call off the friendship. Good friends shouldn't make each other uncomfortable.
2007-02-06 22:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Him being gay or not doesn't affect anything.
The truth is, not every one wants to hear about sex all the time. Gay or straight.
Just tell him that you're okay with him being gay and it's got nothing to do with it, but you aren't comfortable having to listen to him constantly going on about the subject.
2007-02-06 22:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to cool it with the sex details. Tell him you don't mind that he's gay but what they do behind closed doors is THEIR buisiness, not yours.
Just laugh lightly and say 'I can't really look your bf in the eye now'
If he accuses you of being homophobic, tell him to get off his high horse, he's not that interesting.
2007-02-07 03:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that being gay is no excuse for having no class.
2007-02-06 22:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say" Yo ***** shut up about sex with your bf" dont want to hear it.
2007-02-06 22:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just say, " Uh Yeah you can just stop talking now, that's enough bad porn for one day"
2007-02-06 22:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cheer_Star107 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to quit kissing and telling...it's not lady like...oooopppss,
it's not gentlemanly. ;D
2007-02-06 22:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋