Friend problems?

Question

i have a friend and she used to , if she got mad she would just walk away,but now, she hits me
she has started kicking,elbowing me, and hitting me in the arm. She gets mad over the simplist of things.She kicking me today and took skin off, i started crying it hurt so bad, she saw me and all she said wa stop crying, she didnt confor me or anything. it was like the only thing she cared about was not getting in trouble.
I dont want to tell the teacher, cuz we are really close and she knows some secrets and she takes revenge VERY easily. Plz help me solve this

it is hard to get away 1 we have like 4 classes together and 2 are bros are REALLY good friends and a few of my friends i met from her
if we broke are bros would try to make us get bak together

i am also VERY good friends with her cousin (girl)
and we spend like every day with each other

Answer 1

she's not being a very good friend right now but did you consider why she has gone suddenly from walking away to abuse? is it possible something more is troubling her than your silly disagreements? ask her about it. maybe something is wrong at home ect. offer her some comfort first see if you can help her. if she doesn't confide in you then at least you tried before ending your friendship with her. just say hey why are you suddenly doing this? is it me? is something else bothering you? i'd like to help you work things out. but if your going to continue hurting me i can no longer be your friend. about the things she knows on you thats just a good life lesson on you not to share things you don't want getting put out in the open. would you write all your dirty little secrets in a journal then leave it out for whom ever to read? doubt it huh.then don't tell your friends the real bad stuff either its a chance you'll have to take.

Answer 2

That is awful!! She is no friend! You are being taken advantage of and abused not only physically, but emotionally...she is nothing but a nasty BIG bully. I would call her bluff and stay away for a while to see if she pursues yr friendship, hopefully this will get her into gear, additionally showing you her loyalty...with the secrets shared between the 2 of you, don’t let this be a tool of blackmail. If she is nasty enough to tell others, simply deny them...good luck!

Answer 3

Darling, I wouldn't call this abuser a friend. Talk to your parents or maybe a school counselor. I think if you just back away from her a little bit each day maybe she'll find a new victim.

Answer 4

This is probably really serious. I think that it is probably a mental health problem. She might be bipolar. That is the first thing I can think of. If not, then you should just tell her how she makes you feel, and compromise. Hope this helps! Good Luck!

Answer 5

I t probably means your friendship is spliting apart find some new friends to hang out with you should spend some time off of your friendship=P

Answer 6

if she hits you again whip her azz i bet she will not hit you anymore.iam not saying hitting solves anything but she dont want anyone hitting her in her face in pulling skin off her, friends dont do that if she cares for you ,she would not hit you like that its just not nice. tell you brother she is hitting you he loves you blood is thicker then water this friend is aggressive stay away from her dont be her friend you will find other friends.

Answer 7

Stop being a friend to her/him.Tell your teacher. If you don't tell anyone about it, she/he will continue to to hit you more and more. Ask help. Tell your parents. If she's/he's a true friend, she/he will not hurt you like that. If she take revenge, just ignore it. That kind of relationship should not be tolerated. Please... seek help.

Answer 8

You friend sounds aggresive. well be aggresive back. show her she is not boss. or you could sit down and talk to her. but if that doesnt work, sorry to say but get out of the friendship, help her realize that she is ruining a good relationship

Answer 9

I would start avoiding her and if she asks you why, just say, "I wish you wouldn't hit me or kick me when you're mad at me. That really hurts"

Answer 10

Get away from her shes evil,you need nice friends not that kind.