im bi and im a girl and i like a girl in my school shes a little older than me but i think she might like me cuz i heard from a kid in her grade that theres alot of girls in that grade who r bi and yesterday she sat down next to me when i was sitting on a bench all alone and i had my hands folded on my lap cuz i was cold and she was talking to me for a bit she put her hand on my hands and said she was gonna go now and when she was getting up she kinda slid her hand down from my hands to the bench by sliding over my leg and she touched my leg so idk if that was a sign she liked me or if it was an accident... but my question is "is there any chance she likes me too?"
ps. were friends and we talk to eachother too every once and a while were on the same bus so we see eachother everyday
2007-02-06 13:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by I am me and thats all i can be 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
girls will confess, not like guys
2007-02-06 13:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just be an affectionate person. Has she ever had a boyfriend? Maybe you should casually bring it up around her. Tell her that sometimes you're attracted to girls and see what she says. If she says she's never felt that way, then she's not bi. But if she says she has, then maybe she is!
In case she's not, though, don't come out and tell her that you have feelings for her. That will be an unnecessary strain on your friendship.
2007-02-06 21:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Smooth Criminal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a great way to break the ice is to mention something about being bi to her (not by openly confessing it if you're not comfortable with that) but just with inserting it into normal convesation.
ie like you mentioned you heard a lot of kids are bi....so when talking to her say something like....
"I heard there's a lot of bi kids in our class..."
..if that doesn't open up the lines, try this one....it's a little more bold though.
"I consider myself bi (or bi-curious, if you haven't ever done anything with another girl) what do you think about bi's?"
or another way to bring it up: "I think i have bi Tendancies, do you know what i mean? Like, i'm curious, but i dont know if i would ever go there...." sometimes that will open up the door for talking about being bi....if she's bi, being a girl she will sympathize.
or, yet another option, this is the way most girls have let me know they were interested in me
"Would you ever consider dating a girl?"
Good luck!
2007-02-06 22:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by tanja_berengue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows dat she might like u.normal frens wont put their hands on urs and touched ur leg?unless she does dat to all of her frens.try and find out?gud luck =)
2007-02-06 22:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just ask one of ur frends to try and gossip and find out. from what she did though i'd definantly think she was going for you so u probably dont need to do anything to find out. go for her, it'll work,
ps. lesbians are sooooo cool
2007-02-06 21:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a good sign that she digs you
2007-02-06 21:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight up.
2007-02-06 21:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know
2007-02-06 21:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by joseph w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋