what do you do when you have the feeling that you have found the right person, you have known them most of your life, but they are already taken. i know this girl very well, before she started going out with this one guy. i talked with her about everything. she probably knows my life story and i know hers. i even told her i used to like her, but nothing happened, but from what some of her close friends had told me, im certain she also used to like me. im still close friends with her, but she is with another guy, and they seem to be pretty in love.
i would appreciate the non smart alleck answers, and something better than "if you really love her, let her be", because you have no idea what it feels like everytime i see them together. thank you
2007-02-06 13:14:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try to take her back stupid
2007-02-12 00:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know the feeling. It hurt and you think man this sucks! But you have to let her know. Nothing is going to happen unless you speak up. She may feel the same way but is afraid to say anything because she doesn't know how you feel. Or she might say I'm sorry but I see you as just a friend and I already have someone. But you really should say something. It never hurts to try. And then you'll know where you two stand for sure!
2007-02-14 17:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by peachieking18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that if it's really meant to be, it happens. I don't know how or why but it just does. I know this is a truly terrible example but it's the only one I can come up with right now and I'm apologising first. Charles and Camilla, you know who they are right, they were in love for years married other people and then found eachother. I firmly believe there is ALWAYS hope and I count on it every day. Good luck to you.
2007-02-14 19:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Johanna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid your going to have to bide your time. You could talk to her now, but if she's with this other boy and happy, then you may be out of luck... for now. Ask her to keep an open mind on you, and to get back to you in a couple of days, when she's had time to think for a while. You never know, she may have been just going with this boy until you were ready. When she and this boy break up, don't let any time pass before you go after her. You don't want to get stuck waiting around for her again. Good luck.
2007-02-14 17:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love and the relationship is meant to be, then it will happen. In the mean time, let her go and wish her nothing but the best.
Honestly, it sounds as if you a pretty young so don't even worry about it. There are plenty of girls out there who are available, just turn your focus to them instead of wanting what you can't have.
2007-02-14 18:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by I Know, I Know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one! Try moving on and searching for a new someone. If she sees you with another girl maybe she'll get jealous. Also, maybe she's just trying to see how you'd react if she and her bf look like they're so in love. But, probably the best thing to do is to tell her, so later on (and I know this sounds like a cliché) you wouldn't regret anything.
2007-02-14 19:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by goudazcheeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with I'm there with u i know how u fill i still love a man i use to go with 15 years ago and i think of him every day so i no how u r hurting OK but finally i had to let go and try to live my life because he is married now to her and that breaks my Hertabut like they say if you love something set it free if it come back it was yours if it don't it never was baby i know u don't want to here that but that is very true well all i can say is follow your heart and go after what u want OK
2007-02-14 19:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by babyrenee1501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be too late. When guys get that close to girls have the time we end up with our feeling hurt. I say this because they start to look at us as a best friend or brother figure. At this point its nothing you can do or say to make her change her mind until she decides too.
2007-02-14 14:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by dreamchaser225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a complicated situation and sad to top it all ......not sure what the answer for you is ?
yourself said :they seem to be pretty in love ? there really is nothing you can do right now .......yes, it must hurt you , but what can you do ? surely ,some know what it feels like it to be in your situation ......
have you tried to talk to her ? does she know your feelings lately ? have you told her ? .just come out and say it .i would , if i were you ? let continue her relationship as hard as it is for you ....the heart is not something you can change , unfortunately for you sake......
gee .what to tell you ? you can always try to win her heart over ? but will she accept your love ? you have nothing to loose ? so go for it ........................:-)
2007-02-14 09:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by HJW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must hurt like hell... yeah i know what it feels like. You have to fight for her if you are sure it is really love in an untainted form because you would not want to hurt her or mess up her life. Be sure she is the one for you... be absolutely sure and then if you think she feels the same tell her how you feel and fight with everything you've got to win her heart totally with no inbetweens. I know that when you see them together it feels like they are walking on your heart and you want to scream and you feel sick inside but be strong my brother, if you really love her and she feels the same she can be yours if you want her to be.
2007-02-14 09:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you told her you really liked her what the hell did you mean You said you known her most of your life.I would hope you liked her you are friends.Why don't you talk to her and not 2nd hand stories. Good luck
2007-02-14 20:48:23 · answer #11 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋