2007-02-06 12:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by papa chulo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know that song ordinary people by John Legend?
[Verse 1]
Girl im in love with you
This ain't the honeymoon
Past the infatuation phase
Right in the thick of love
At times we get sick of love
It seems like we argue everyday
[Bridge]
I know i misbehaved
And you made your mistakes
And we both still got room left to grow
And though love sometimes hurts
I still put you first
And we'll make this thing work
But I think we should take it slow
[Chorus]
We're just ordinary people
We don't know which way to go
Cuz we're ordinary people
Maybe we should take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow
[Verse 2]
This ain't a movie no
No fairy tale conclusion ya'll
It gets more confusing everyday
Sometimes it's heaven sent
Then we head back to hell again
We kiss and we make up on the way
[Bridge]
I hang up you call
We rise and we fall
And we feel like just walking away
As our love advances
We take second chances
Though it's not a fantasy
I Still want you to stay
[Chorus]
We're just ordinary people
We don't know which way to go
Cuz we're ordinary people
Maybe we should take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow
[Verse 3]
Take it slow
Maybe we'll live and learn
Maybe we'll crash and burn
Maybe you'll stay, maybe you'll leave,
maybe you'll return
Maybe another fight
Maybe we won't survive
But maybe we'll grow
We never know baby youuuu and I
[Chorus]
We're just ordinary people
We don't know which way to go
Cuz we're ordinary people
Maybe we should take it slow (Heyyy)
We're just ordinary people
We don't know which way to go
Cuz we're ordinary people
Maybe we should take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow (Take it slow oh oh ohh)
This time we'll take it slow
i love this song because it's so true.
You are able to say you love her..
try to make this work. You know.. when she gets on your nerves, grit your teeth and try to make it out with you. Smile... joke around (at the right times please). You obviously care about her.. you want to work it out. Maybe you should talk to her about it.. tell her you love her and you care for her. If you guys are in love, you guys can talk about anything.
REMEMBER that love isn't perfect. BUt it's worth it.
2007-02-06 12:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, what are you fighting about??, Do you disagree, just to be difficult? My husband & I got married in college, the first 2 years we could argue about ANYTHING, once we even got into a shouting match about which store to go to buy a paint brush! After 20 years,(yup still in love & married to him), I can only laugh at the stupid things we would fight about, I think we argued because we were still immature, did'nt have much money,(I guess when you can't go out much, you create your own drama at home), and we had to transition from a me state of mind to being a "we". After a couple of years, the drama drops off, the fighting gets old, and up grow up a little. Now it's easier to accept each other for who we are, rather than always having to be the one that is always right, (mostly that part was me, I always thought I had to win every argument, which I now know does'nt work in a mariage). Does any of this sound like your marriage??, If so it's just the part where you 2 are finding your way, I really think the first couple of years are the hardest, even when you are in love, hang in there, it gets easier & better!! Now go say you are sorry, and the last fight was your fault,(even if it was'nt), and she will melt right into your arms, my husband figured that one out, works like a charm.
2007-02-06 21:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your in love...you wouldnt want to fight and argue or raise your voice at your loved one...you might of got married to soon and you are both not ready. you are probably not the right one for eachother...thats why you should always live together first for at least 2 years to see the others true colors...compromising is very important..instead of raising your voice you should try talking things out calmly.
i agree with the pastor above me....find a good christian church and you both should go regularly...any thing is possible with god...what is impossible to us humans is always 'possible' to god...just believe in him and you both will truley find your way
2007-02-07 01:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by LoVeLy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are not the frist to have fight, there is a lot of marry people who fight as long as there is no physical hittig. what goes on in your struggle is santan temptation but with god in your life your love will grow stronger and the fighting will stop if you had faith of a mustard seed you can move mountain. if you two will do me a favor and each one have a bible and read 1 corinthain
10 :13 and try to memerise it and when the devil try to get in again tell him in aloud voice be gone from me in the name of OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST
2007-02-06 22:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by goodstuff4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably both? you guys just have to get over it. everyone fight,married or not. its normal.
2007-02-06 20:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you both just have very strong personalities. you'll work through this.
2007-02-06 21:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋