sorry to ask this again but i am going to put more datail into it!!! i have this best friend named fergie and we had plans..not major plans...just small ones... well my other best friend monica is in the hospital it might be bad!... so i told fergie i was going to see monica in the hospital...it is the only day i can!!! well i am back from the hospital now and fergie is mad @ me...she has her friend from the popular group talking to me on yahoo messanger... and she dosnt even know me! she is yelling @ me!!! she is saying all this stuff she is judging me and she dosnt know me...so my two questions are: was i right or was fergie right???... my other one is how do i get the popular chick to leave me alone??? without not talking to fergie
2007-02-06 12:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think your right. i mean come on, your friend is in the hospital! how can she be mad at you for visiting your friend? wouldn't she want you to do the same if she was in the hospital? and i think you need to tell that chick to just leave you alone. plain and simple. try talking to fergie without anybody around or being ur telephone, cuz bitches like that can twist your words.
2007-02-06 12:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Fergie to grow up first of all, you don't need friends like that sweety. A friend doesn't get someone else to pick on you or call you names. If she was a true friend she would be talking to you about, and asking how monica is doing. Tell this other chick to back up off of you. She ain't got no play in this, so tell her to know her role.
And you have all the rights in the world to go see your friend in the hospital, if it's bad.
2007-02-06 20:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i think u were right. unless this fergie person has some real grudge against monica, look at it this way: hospitalized best friend, self-centered best friend. does fergie even know that monica is IN the hospital?
second, what kind of a name is fergie???short for fergina?
2007-02-06 20:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by soccerluver104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were right to visit your friend Monica who is in the hospital and Fergie should understand, if not, she isn't much of a friend. As for getting rid of the person who is bothering you on yahoo messenger, hit the ignore button and dont let her bother you.
2007-02-06 21:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right in your decision. If you continue to call Fergie a friend than you are wrong. Let her go she is trouble. Tell your side to the other girl and if she cant accept it than she needs fergie because both of them are self centered and you are better than that.
2007-02-06 20:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by wandawoooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were definately right. Your friend was in the hospital and you needed to see her. Fergie needs to get over herself and realize that you have other friends that are important to you
2007-02-06 20:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Candace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this Fergie girl isn't really your friend.
2007-02-06 20:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by stars&shadows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are teasing you- be strong and do NOT pay attention.
And i think you were right, and maybe Fergie is just really jealous?!?!?!
Anyway, toy were right and good luck.
I wish Monica to get better soon!
2007-02-06 20:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block that ***** that is talking **** to you. fergie is also being a *****, im sure there will be another time where you two can get together and if your friend does died and you never visited her then im sure you will feel really really bad...
2007-02-06 20:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by piggylover_850 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were kind and right to visit a sick friend. How would you feel if you were the one in the hospital and your friend didn't visit you because they "had plans." Your other friend sounds like she isn't very compassionate.
2007-02-06 20:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋