Im dating a girl which i havent meet,but im still confused on what i really feel for her. I feel good when talking to her is like its really me and not someone else that hides what she thinks. She makes me feel diffrent,should i meet her so that i can be sure on my feeling towareds her or what?
2007-02-06 12:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by Elizabeth G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You could take it slowly by exchanging photos and talking on the phone, if you haven't already. A new relationship is always exciting so don't rush things...just enjoy it. Your expectations will be high when you finally meet, but if you go into it realizing that people are not exactly the same online as they are in person, you may find the really wonderful relationship you want. It's a good sign when you say you feel like you can be honest with her. That's important when you're going from an online friendship to something in person. You should definitely meet at some point--because you'll never know if it will work out unless you meet and talk and spend some time together. And the things you regret when you're old and gray are the things you haven't done--more than the things you have done.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 12:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if she makes you feel good then you should definatlly meet her. Why not? It wouldn't hurt. And it's nice to meet people in real life because then you KNOW if your feelings are real or not. Trust me, you'll get the answers if you do meet her. If you don't, then I think you're just going to stay confused. But when you meet her, follow your heart, not your head. =)
I'm here to help anytime!
2007-02-06 20:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything else that you can do to find the truth for yourself?
No. You must meet her to find the truth. Your fear is only causing you confusion - when in reality, you know what you need to do.
Don't let your mind confuse you when your other senses - your heart and instinct are telling you the answer. Your fear will only cause further confusion and you will not find the ultimate truth unless she is sitting in front of you.
You can attend to your fear and face regret, or do what you know you need to do to find the truth.
It's up to you.
2007-02-06 20:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing this is an online relationship. Bring a trusted freind(just a friend) with you who can leave if you want her/gim to later on. Or can stay and help you out if she isnt the one. Good luck!!!
2007-02-06 20:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by treehugger421 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you date someone you've never met? If I were you, I'd go and meet her... what have you got to lose?
2007-02-06 20:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pepper's Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it definitely sounds like it's time to meet her.. pick a public place to meet, like a restaurant, and you can take things from there..
2007-02-06 20:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you possibly be "Dating" a girl that you've never met?
That makes NO sense.
2007-02-06 20:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know you tell me
2007-02-06 20:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by bored 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-02-06 20:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋