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i have a best friend named monti...and she is sick in the hospital:(...it is really bad! so i had plans with my other bff named fergie...i canceld them though so i could go vizit monti in the hospital!!! now fergie is mad @ me!!!

2007-02-06 11:55:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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I think you've done a great deed. If I were in the hospital, I'd feel very special to have someone like you visit me, knowing you canceled your plans with someone one. You rock!

2007-02-06 11:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cartman 3 · 0 0

you did the right thing cause you can always hang out with her another time or reschedule the plans with fergi. Monti needs a good friend like you. Friends like you are hard to find. keep up the good work I am sure monti will feel better soon and hope fergi will come around

2007-02-06 12:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by laurechery 3 · 0 0

Why is yr friend fergie mad?? I mean, if she's really a bstf then she should understand. Come on, it's not like yr trying to have fun without her, yr going so that u can be by yr friend who's in hospital. U should meet her and explain that yr really sorry for cancelling the plan, but that u really care about monti, cuz she's yr friend and that u'd do exactly the same if fergie was in same situation. Mayb yr friend was really looking forward to this plan to go somewhere wiv u or smthing.

2007-02-06 12:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by aji 3 · 0 0

Explain to Fergie what happened and why you visited Monti instead. Fergie should be glad that you're such a good friend....if she was ever in the hospital I'm sure she would want you to visit her! Hopefully Fergie will understand what a great friend she has. Good luck!

2007-02-06 11:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by flygirl 3 · 0 0

you were so right your friend monti needs you maybe try to explain to fergie that you went to visit monti because she is in the hospital for something really serious and you wanted to make sure she was ok and try to make new plans with fergie

2007-02-06 12:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Josie 2 · 0 0

It is very considerate of you to see Monli in the hospital, but you gave your word to Fergie. You should have prepared earlier and arranged your plans to the hospital and with Fergie work out. But still Fergie should also be more considerate and understanding. There is no rite or wrong to this question. Stuff happens.

2007-02-06 12:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You did the right thing and have nothing to worry about. Fergi is just being selfish and childish. Your friend in the hospital needs you more. Even if it wasn't something serious you would have made the right choice. I guess if you were in the hospital Fegi would have ditched you to go hang out with someone else too. Goes to show you what a good friend she is. Anyway she needs to apologize not you. You did nothing wrong, nothing at all.

2007-02-06 11:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by angel h 4 · 0 0

You did the right thing. It is unfortunate that Fergie is so selfish and immature. She is completely wrong to be upset. Visiting a very ill friend in the hospital is admirable and certainly a priority. If Fergie was a good friend, she'd have gone too, whether she knew her or not, to support you.

2007-02-06 11:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by amyg11ca 2 · 0 0

You were right to visit your friend Monti. If Fergie is mad tell him tough luck and find someone who trusts you/

2007-02-06 12:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it would depend, where you plans with fergie special plans, something you couldnt do another time,,,,, or was there another time you could of visited at the hospital? she might feel that you could of managed to do both,,,,,, though yes she should be understanding if monti is seriously ill and you were pressed for time

2007-02-06 11:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0 0

I think that it was probably more important to be with a friend who isn't feeling well. However, you may want to apologize to Fergie for canceling just to clear the air and explain that you would have done the same thing if she was sick.

2007-02-06 11:59:00 · answer #11 · answered by petral6 1 · 0 0

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