If the relationship is going so well, Do you think it's because you and your partner's lifestyle match or is it because your lifestyles are completely opposite?
2007-02-06 11:45:44 · 19 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think that if its going so wel then you shouldnt try and analyze it just take it for what it is, me and my honey have been together since 1998 and our lifestyles are way diffrent and we are to diffrent personalitys but we are so in love, and in every realtionship there are ups and downs the time to run is when there are more basd times then good!!!!
2007-02-06 12:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the lifestyles have to be the same of opposite. what makes the difference is when each person is willing to accept the others lifestyle. It generally depends on the person if they can accept a lifestyle that is opposite theirs, than good for them. However there are some people who are unable to accept something that is opposite, these people will be naturally attracted to people with the same lifestyle
2007-02-06 19:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because our lifestyles are close, BUT...we've lived different lives, and have had different experiences to bring into the relationship. We're also both able to share things with each other, AND have interests of our own as well.
2007-02-06 19:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because we match... No doubt. He has different interests, but lifestyles are the same.
2007-02-06 19:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion, but I believe 2 people have to have the same morals, values, similar lifestyles, & loving families to stand a chance at being together forever.
2007-02-06 19:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
our lifestyles have become similar in some ways, different in others - I don't think it is related to the success of our relationship at all.
2007-02-06 19:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be a little bit of both because if yall lifestyle was a match then yall might get a little tired of each other...and if yall lifestyle was completely different then yall wouldnt have enough things to do with each other...but if you had a little bit of both everthihng will be A ...O...KAY!!!!!!!!!!! ( IN OTHER WORDS EVERYTHING WOULD BE JUST FINE)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-06 19:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my personal experience, it is a combination of both.
The differences are in things that only bring variety to the relationship (22 yrs together in case you are wondering) and the similarities are in the important things like what our goals and steps are for parenting, finances and family goals.
2007-02-06 19:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by QueenBee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i r almost complete opposites. we always joke that he is the calm and i am the storm. we kind of fit. we like a lot of the same things but we also have differences and i think that is what makes us work so well.
2007-02-06 19:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me and my guy are opposites in the way we think about most things, but exactly the same in the way we react to most things... if that makes any sense. We balance each other.
2007-02-06 19:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋