Do you ever get thoughts of your best friend being ugly or the other one being conceited?
I love my friends and would do anything for them and i don't talk about any of them but i feel bad for the thoughts
2007-02-06 11:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's the weird thing about our brain there are these thoughts that come in and I'm like where did those thoughts come from?
You shouldn't put any value to some of the things that pop up in your mind. You're okay.
2007-02-07 09:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lonely Bàstard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're human. We think things that can be mean. I'm sure your best friend has some mean thoughts of her own. But if you're a true friend, I would talk to her/him about it. Being friends is being open with each other even if it hurts.
2007-02-06 19:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by princessk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad friend at all...you're human. Just make sure you don't let those thoughts get in the way of your friendship. Maybe even spend time with other people so you'll appreciate these friends more!
2007-02-06 19:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'd say you're a good friend just for not talking bad about them. Try focusing on the great things about them! I hope that helps!
2007-02-06 19:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk about your friends then your O.K. The point is that you think your Friends are conceded or ugly and yet you are still their friend anyway. As long as you don't let their looks decide your friends ship then you are O.K.
2007-02-06 19:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bad friend. As long as you don't express these to them in a critical fashion. But it is not wrong to think these things.
2007-02-06 19:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to stop thinking like that, but I wouldn't say your a bad friend.
2007-02-06 19:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by peyton_dude_999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't controll those kinds of thoughts. Just keep them to yourself and don't tell them about it to avoid hurt feelings.
2007-02-06 19:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by ☮☆☮☆☮☆☮ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. I do that with some of my friends, especially if they have attitudes for no reason. It's normal, don't worry, it's okay.
2007-02-06 19:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt make you a bad friend that makes you human they could be thinking that about you.But do they say it to you.(not a question to be answered)
2007-02-06 20:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋