I have a boyfriend but hes in Kansas and idk if he is cheating on me or not becuase i cant control him but heres the Catch about it all hes the quaterback of the football team there and we haev been going out for 5 1/2 yrs
2007-02-06 11:15:10 · 15 answers · asked by *I.Love.You* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WELL HERE IS SOME SIMPLE ADVICE THAT I THINK WILL SLOVE YOUR QUESTION, YOU HAVE TRUST HIM, IF YOU CANT TRUST HIM WHY THE HECK DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM, IT WILL NEVER WORK OUT IF THERE IS NO TRUST AND THAT IS AS REAL AS I CAN BE GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-06 11:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some time long distant relationships don't work but if you are in love with him give him a chance. If for some reason you have doubts find out. As a female we can always find out the truth. Just do a little investigating of your own. Call at times you normally don't, pop up if you can, have a friend in the other state watch him to see what he does. It is very easy. Keep your head up and stay positive.
2007-02-06 19:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by poppiesu1 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I cant believe you've been going with a guy for 5 plus years and he lives in another state and you wonder if he's cheating on you.I think long distance relationships are really bad and don't generally work.Good luck maybe someone else has a different idea.
2007-02-06 19:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hire a Private detective.
2007-02-06 19:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by pinkieslim1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's doubtful that he's cheating on you. He's probably busy with his studies more than anything else. I wouldn't worry about it at all. Even if he was you couldn't do anything about it except accept it and move on.
So find something else to do to occupy your thoughts and you won't feel so miserable.
2007-02-06 19:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
are you not in kansas? if you dont know that he's cheating then why would you even think of it? if you dont hear from him for a long time, unusual for him that is, or if he's abrupt and not open about answering your queries...then you might be concerned. otherwise, there's no concern for such a thing. peace
2007-02-06 19:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Gee, I live in Lawrence, Kansas I could check him out if you'd like? LOL ;o)
2007-02-06 19:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trying to con-troll someone is the best way to lose them, so what if he is a quarterback, if he really cares for you he will be faithful, if not, it is a test of your relationship, can it survive, long distance??
2007-02-06 19:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you two have been going out that long, chances are he won't cheat on you because he is really into you. don't sweat it.
2007-02-06 19:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by italiana 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
call him all the time, and if he says like he has to go when you didnt really talk to him, i mean like right after he answers, ask questions, like why when can i call you back.
2007-02-06 19:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by sayalicious 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋