I am with this girl whos really loves me but I don't love her anymore I want to break up with her by getting in a fight and just saying it's over but I don't know how to start it so how do I bring it up oh I also don't want to hear her voice or dee her face when I do it. Please help me!
2007-02-06 11:11:38 · 31 answers · asked by Micky D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats not kool man...if your gonna break up with her at least have the guts to say it to her face outright.....man up...
2007-02-06 11:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Brightside 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
:-(
How sad.
I think you have to have the courage to face up to her and the kindness to tell her nicely that it is over.
Staging a fight so that you can do this in anger is not right. What has she done to deserve that you treat her so shabbily?
And how would YOU feel if it were the other way around?
To intentionally hurt anyone- let alone a person you once loved, is REALLY mean.
You should think carefully about this because, in my world, what goes around, comes around. That means that if you do someone an unkind turn, one day someone will do you one in return.
Sort of an "eye for an eye"?
:-)
So- while I truly understand how hard it must be to have to tell her and to deal with her upset I think you have to be strong and do the decent thing.
Breaking up is rarely easy and to do it right is a grand thing. Do it. I know you can. And believe me- you will feel a LOT better for it.
2007-02-06 11:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to treat her in the manner in which you would want someone to treat you. Would you want someone to pick a fight or say it over the phone if they wanted to break up with you. Give her the respect and dignity of doing it the correct way, face to face. You have to be careful how you treat others for what you send into the universe will come back to you in the same manner.
2007-02-06 11:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately in life we all have to do things we don't want to. If you sit her down and explain your feelings there should be no reason for her or you for that matter to start arguing. Breaking up is hard to do (a song title i believe), but you've got to be straight with her and it will be easier for her to get over if you do it face to face. It may not be the answer you were looking for, but if you ever had any feelings for this girl then show a little respect for her feelings and try and let her down as gently as possible and with as much respect as possible. Texts, emails, Dear Janet letters just don't hack it and you are likely to get more hassle if you go down that route.
2007-02-06 11:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and do the simple thing, kid.
Call her on the phone and tell you you want to break up, then hang up.
She'll know you for the cad you are, so you won't have to worry about seeing her nor hearing her voice again.
Fighting shows your immaturity.
2007-02-06 11:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a chicken sh it a sshole doing it that way. You need to grow a set of ballz and tell her face to face that you don't love her anymore and want to move on with your life.
I've heard of some chicken shi t methods of breaking up before but this tops them all.
2007-02-06 11:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your an A** HOLE!!!!! just tell her! getting into a relationship means you acepct the responsablitly of breaking up when the time comes. if you do it in a way that you dont see her voice or her face she will hate you a million times more then if you just grow a set of balls and tell her that the realtionship is over.
2007-02-06 11:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to suck it up. My boyfriend did that to me over IM so many times(joking ) that when he really didit I walked up to him the next morning at school to give him our regular morning kiss. I kissed him and then he told me it was for real. Then a week later he was hauled off in handcuffs and I haven't seen him or heard from him since. I hate him now, don't do that to anyone that truely loves you.
2007-02-06 11:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to break up with her try making her mad by telling another girl to act like she went with u for like let say a year and bring her around ur gf like u dont see her and if she ask who is she just say a girl i meet a while back and breaktp with her
2007-02-06 11:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aree M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to ya but if u dont do it in her face, you're just gonna make it worse. she's gonna tell her friends about it and you're gonna be known as the guy who didnt have enough guts to do it in front of her.
OR, you can just stop calling her.... yes, it's evil, but as a girl i wouldnt put up with a guy who ignores me... so hopefully she'll break up with u instead. if not, then she has bigger issues to deal with. no woman in her right mind would still insist on being with a guy who obviously doesnt give a damn about her.
yes my advice is evil, but lemme say it again.... the only right way to break up with someone is to just be honest with them and tell them flat out.
2007-02-06 11:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by graciedai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋