I am not sure if I am bi or not. I have a boyfriend. I love him. But from time to time I daydream about girls.-Not just any girls. There are always certain ones that I think about. Sometimes I even dream about it. I like the thought of "some" girls and them being naked or anyhting like that.I even think about having sex with them. I don't know what it is. But can someone plz help me ut here.
2007-02-06 11:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you sound bi-curious at least.
2007-02-06 11:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say, if you ever had that feeling all your life, then you should consider asking yourself more questions. If not, well then it may be a phase you went through.
Now, asking others how you feel would help, but only for that moment... Normally, you ask again, and again... analyse, weigh, etc... and you would feel as though what you had been told previously never made sense in the first place. I know, it can be torturous.
But, like I would always tell anyone I meet with this problem, only you can answer your own questions... the answers are in you.
I know lot of ppl who go thru a phase of questioning his/her sexuality, especially if they only started asking these things to themselves at a stage past adolescence, but in the end, it all boils down to two things... who you prefer spending the rest of your life with sexually, and how you class yourself, which takes time.
2007-02-09 11:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Caoimhin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although no one seems to want to talk about it but most people have same sex fantasies at some time in their life. Most people deny it but there have been studies that show over 80% of the population are at least curious about same sex encounters. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing. Human sexuality is a very complex thing so accept it and enjoy.
2007-02-06 19:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mike D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you are dreaming of your friend or a couple of girls in your class, you could be , but it takes time,
many women fantasize about women sexually
but it more being bi you more or less are thinking about a certain girl, and day dreaming about her and wanting to be with her,
not ellen degeneres but the girl in school, some one real.
2007-02-06 19:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bi, but being bi or gay or straight is more then just sex, it's intmacy and feelings. I suggest that you quit trying to label your self and experience intmacy w/ guys and girls. Explore your feelings and go with who you love. Sexuality is a fluid thing.
2007-02-06 19:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Curious doesn't make you bi. If you try and like it and keep dating both sexes, then you would be bi.
2007-02-06 19:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by cirene40 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what you see in your private part is your real gender,being LGBT is the way people think and how they want their lives to be. if you wanna get attracted to girls you get attracted to them, if you wanna hate guys you hate guys..its the way you think.
sometimes i dream that too..:]
but im straight, some girls are just too pretty.
2007-02-06 19:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by sutefuani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal.....for some people it is just a stage of life but sometimes if your feelings have happened for years or so then maybe you are.
2007-02-06 19:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by ~Prissy_091 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your asking your probably not. you may like me have bisexual tendancys. why is unknown but many teens of both genders experience bisexual or homosexual feelings for no reason.
2007-02-06 19:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you what to have sex with both sexes then you are bi.sexual. if you only what boys then you are guy,if you jest what to see a girl.s body but not have sex then you are bi.curious,
2007-02-06 19:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋