It's so painful to say goodbye to people & things you love?
is for me unbearable. how can I deal with this?
2007-02-06 10:36:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks guys, is true, if one didn't care it would not be painful.Just need to accept.
2007-02-06 11:44:09 · update #1
I know, it's hard.
I think of the pain as a part of being "alive" and caring.
Time will help the pain. But you will never forget them, trust me.
Just don't give up.
2007-02-06 10:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hold on to what you can. If you really love something, then try hard to keep it with you. I found this out the hard way. Make it your number 1 priority. Don't let your own selfish goals get in the way.
2007-02-06 18:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless some one has really hurt you never say good bye always say until I see you again - you will never lose true friends
2007-02-07 05:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to understand that without the "bad" we would have no idea what good was. goin through somethin painful helps you to really appreciate all the great moments even more.
2007-02-07 06:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by MissG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to imagine that you 'aren't saying goodbye, don't make it sound final...just tell yourself they are still there, with you, even just in the next room....Keep yourself busy
2007-02-06 18:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Susie2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Wilhelmina
Its all part of the big picture
Better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all ...
2007-02-07 23:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by healer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just never say goodbye. Well for real. Tell him what you trully feel like.
2007-02-06 18:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Natalie♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are more sensitive than others.
2007-02-06 18:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it takes me like 10 years+ to just calm the thoughts down.....i think our hearts must be too big.
2007-02-07 06:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by a.c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play computergames and never look back.. its painful
2007-02-06 18:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Grog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋