okay, my so called "best friend" is ignoring me and acting like a dont exist. i cant just move on if she doesnt want to be friends cuz well i live her to death AND she is becoming really close to my enemy. what do i do? how do i deal with this? has anyone else been in this situation before let me know. PLEASE HELP!
2007-02-06 10:34:18 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Somehow make friends with the so called enemy. If not directly, through a mediator.
2007-02-06 11:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kool-kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to her and ask her whats up. but ether way she will never be your friend again, and you shouldn't want her to be you friend. if your best friends and shes ignoring you, you shouldn't let her get a rise or even any attention out of you, what I'm saying is that don't be a *itch but don't act like you life depends on if she talks to you today or not. you need to get move on with your life, slowly stop thinking that you need her as a friend. maybe shes not ignoring you and just needs a little space, but it sounds like that's not the answer.
If your friend is hanging out with your enemy, and she knows she your enemy then shes sending you a sign. this is only if its obvious that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore.
Other wise if she does still want to be friends and shes been ignoring you this could be because she has found an actually friend in your enemy, tell her that you accept her being friends with your enemy but that doesn't mean that you have to hang out or be a part of your friends relationship with your enemy. that you just want to be friends with her and if that means accepting her being friends with your enemy then so be it.
WORST CASE :
she doesn't want to be friends with you and you can make anyone be your friend no mater how much you love them, sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go.
2007-02-06 18:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people in your life that will come and go. Try to talk to her and work things out, if not, then move on.....I know this sounds harsh but this is the way things are. The only people that I even talk to from the time that I was growing up until now that I consider true friends are my family. My dad always said that you could count all your true friends in life on two hands or less, and he was right.
2007-02-06 18:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by BSG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself, be friends with your homegirl and your enemy. Dont sweat the petty stuff, cause once you grow up a bit, you'll realize you took some stuff way too seriously (like this) and were mean to people you shouldn't have been. Be the girl that everyone wants to be friends with because she is nice and friendly, not the girl who only lets certain people be her friend.
2007-02-06 18:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand u love her and all but just by her becoming friends with your enemy shows she doesnt have the same love for u. She is ignoring u and everything...The only thing u can do is tell her how it is making u feel and see where she stands from there
2007-02-06 18:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experience in this catagory. My so called best friend really likes trying to be better than anyone else. She is annoying beyond belief and I'm just being the better person in the sititution. That is what you need to is be the better person and break it off easily. Hope it works out for the better.
2007-02-06 18:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Super_Colts_Fan♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happened to me b4. my friend was blowing me off all the time and calling me names. i talked 2 her about it and she kept denying everything. she grew up a little after that and were still friends, but i moved on. u clinging 2 your friend is not going 2 make things any better. try talking 2 her. maybe that'll help. but if it doesnt, try making some new friends.
2007-02-06 18:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. Keep your head up and ignore her a$$ right back. She's not worth your time if she's acting like that anyway. There are plenty of people to be friends with.
2007-02-06 18:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by lbkipp@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll i would just forget about her and get a new best friend or you can start talking to her best friends but if you want her to be there than just tell her what did you do wrong and ask her is there a way that you can make up for it and see what happens
2007-02-06 18:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have. one thing you dont want to do, is tell her to pick sides, to either hang out wit u or your enemy. just try to hang in there. if this keeps getting worst, you might want to hang out with other friends, and meet other people. because if she knoes that you really dislike that other girl, she wouldnt be getting TOO close to her, maybe it's time to hang out with another friend :)
2007-02-06 18:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by milagros g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋