my boyfriend completely left me about a month ago and im pregnant with his child. there's a boy that is interested in my and i in him. i know my ex has all his little girlfriends so is it wrong for me to be involved with someone else too?
2007-02-06 10:32:47 · 32 answers · asked by Ash G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is definitely not wrong for you to get involved with someone. When I was 19 years old I got pregnant with my boyfriend at the times child, he wanted me to have an abortion and was not supportive at all. Needless to say, him and I broke up. Not long after that I began dating a great guy who stuck by my side through my whole pregnancy and really gave me support that I needed at the time. Going through it together actually made us closer as a couple. Now 6 years later him and I are happily married. Don't pass up an opportunity for your own happiness! I hope this helps, good luck!
2007-02-06 10:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by babydancingnlovinit 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he left then the relationship is over. Sad for you and the baby...but apparently he is not father material. But, it can't be wrong to see other guys..but is it wise? What are your plans for the baby and does this other guy see himself as father material?..And if you are keeping this baby, any man who you get involved with should know it is a package deal..the whole thing or nothing. Your child should always come first. And last but not least..never go back. Let him(the ex) have all his little girlfriends as his life is his to do what he will with..as is yours.. You have to grow up now and be the responsible one. New beginnings ..new directions.Good luck.
2007-02-06 10:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by dlminca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right in trying to support. About your bf, there might be like a 1000nd things on his intellect going about now. Probably he doesn't quite know how to deal with his son being a dad and living in his condominium, or have plenty of stuff from work and feels that you just will have to live him some space. He wouldn't have screamed while you were looking to support, but perhaps you should have talked to him at house. Take this in the proper approach, i do not imply to be pushy or some thing. Perhaps you will have to just suggest that you could aid, now not simply start investigating and seeking to put 2 plus 2 and count on that your niece and bf will comply with what you do. Probably they can consider like you don't like them at your bf condominium, or want to impose whatever. Higher to ask them when there's extra time than just bringing in stuff. That is just an thought, and it could no longer be the one or the first-class one. Just right success
2016-08-10 15:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this is why I respect religions where marriage comes before sex.
My first children don't have their father. Relationships get hard when you have a baby for other men. When the next guy gets you pregnant you will see a difference in how he treats his own child.
Now when I look back........well lets just say it's not fair to the kids involved..........
I'd stay single until at least having the chance to bond with the baby.
If a guy likes you he will still like you later.
2007-02-06 10:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are over your baby's daddy it is perfectly okay to date someone else. Make sure you take things slowly and that he knows you are pregnant. Do not start a relationship if it is just to make your ex upset. I'm 31 weeks pregnant and the guy I am dating is not my baby's father. He left a long time ago. I am so much happier with him.. go for it...
2007-02-06 10:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should do what makes you happy. He left you remember, and if he has moved on why shouldn't you. It's hard to find someone sometimes who will accept another mans child, and if this guy likes you, knows you are pregnant and he is ok with it, go for it. Just make sure he will be good to the baby, and a good person for the baby to be around. Good luck to you!
2007-02-06 10:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is wrong because the guy left you but you need to make sure the other guy knows you are pregnant and don't try to trick him or do anything crazy.. and definitely don't get him involved if there's any drama!!
2007-02-06 10:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and be with someone else. Who knows you might end up being with that person for a long time and by the time the baby comes he will want to sign the birth certificate. Just because you are pregnant doesnt mean you have to stay with the kids dad. just make him pay child support!
2007-02-06 10:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by redheadwithadditude69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think its wrong at all...your still a girl & even though your pregnant you still have the rigth to be with whoever you want to be...just hopefully your actually looking for somebody that would be interested in becoming the babies father & taking the other guys place since he doesnt want to do anything about it...& you better get your ex for child support too because its the law & it will help out a little bit in the long run
2007-02-06 10:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Twinkle in My Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You need to be concentrating on bringing a healthy baby into this world. Leave the men alone for now. Any man who messes with you KNOWING you're pregnant has NO respect for you. Your priorities need to change. And if I were you I wouldn't have anything to do with the child's father. But make sure you make him pay child support.
2007-02-06 10:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Cori 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋