forget her or give in to it?

Question

Theres this person who I am very close to, I mean she is like my mother.well she works at my school and she tells me everything.sometimes i feel like I dont deserve to know half of it but I feel if were as close as we say we are than who careWell latley she has been very strange. She doesnt agree with anything that I do now and argues with me all the time. I have been dating and really trying to connect with ppl and she makes me feel terrible about it. She is always in a bad mood and demands attention. But she is grown. And she always tell me how I am like a daughter to her but she has been saying the same things to my friend lol. Guys, really if I am making her seem like a ***** then thats not my intention, she is really a good person and had done more for me than my own mother, but now that I am a bit older I dont know if I should even bother with any of this.I want her to be happy with how i am now. I just dont know what to do at this point. Just end it, But Shes all i really have

Answer 1

How old are you? She may really be trying to help and perhaps you should listen.

On the other hand, adults, especially some adults, are as screwed up emotionally as any high school girl. She could be jealous, horny, depressed or any number of things and taking it out on you.

You need to figure out if what she is advising you to do is really in your best interest, or if she is trying to protect her interests. More specifically, is it what she THINKS is in your best interest, or THINKS is in her best interest. If she is arguing with you because of her own ego, you need to get away from her. If she is trying to protect her, perhaps you need to at least consider her advice.

Answer 2

Well you should feel lucky. Some people don't have anyone. Your lucky you've got someone who worries about you. Just sit her down tell her how you feel and go from there. Let her know that things are bothering you.

Don't give up on her she never gave up on you

Good Luck