Do you think my wife still has feelings for her ex?

Question

My wife says she hates her ex but it seems to me that she always talking to him or about him. she talks about how stupid his Wife is and how he going to play her, and I'm like "who cares". should she even care if he plays his wife. I don't want to read into this to much but it is starting to piss me off. It's not like she talking about him in a good way, but just talking about him at all is getting old. If a person is always talking about another person, even in a bad way do you think their is somthing there. I could use all the advice on this one I can get...

Answer 1

I suspect that she hasn't let go of that relationship yet. You shouldn't feel threatened because I don't think that she loves him, it's just that she hasn't finished healing all of the pain that he caused. It's going to take her more time to process all of it. Patience...