How to nicely get rid of a friend?

Question

I have a firend named mike we started out likeing him cause he was nice, But now hes getting annoying hes doing so many things worng like
1)lying about his sexuality and saying he has boyfriends over when he really doesnt!!
2) hes touching us way to much i like hugs but not an overload of them every second
3) hes acting totally imature when hes older than us he has no right to act that way!!
so tomrrow me and my friends are going to get rid of him we just don't know how to do so that we don't totally crush him!!

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy. Tell him you don't want to hurt his feelings, but you don't want to associate with him. Just be honest. I'm going to have to do thaat myself with someone who comes over my house ALL the time!!!

Answer 2

You can't worry about him being crushed or hurt, that will most likely happen, but you do need to be respectful about it and choose your words wisely. I would look him in the eye and say:" .....I am sorry, but I don't want to spend time with you anymore. I wish you well." That's it. Don't get into a discussion or argument if you really intend to end this relationship. By the way, boys mature later than girls, so him being older doesn't mean much.

Answer 3

First of all you need to set boundaries with him. You need to let him know when to stop. I recommend you talk with him about your concerns. Let him know that his actions are really affecting your relationship with him. Tell him that him that his inappropriate behaviors must cease immediately or the friendship is over. He has to respect your request, if not, he isn't a true friend!

Answer 4

Okay. Sweetheart just tell him,"i dont think that it is the best thing for us to be friends. Well not until you start acting right.You really arnt being you. I wish that you could only see that."

Answer 5

boys don't get crushed. all u have 2 say is like leave us alone or something. trust me I'm a boy

Answer 6

tell him to get the hell away from you! leave you alone!