This is a 6 month affair and they are in love??? I do not think he is in a position to leave his wife at this point, but I do know he loves the other woman. Is she in a no way situation??
2007-02-06 09:48:40 · 8 answers · asked by okieblue38 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Children are grown and out of house. Trouble in marriage...no fighting..just exist together.
2007-02-06 10:14:41 · update #1
Some do, some don't, but one simple fact remains. I do NOT want a man that I was able to steal out from under another woman! I wouldn't trust that he wouldn't do it to me! What kind of prize is she getting? A PLAYER! Of course she's in a no win situation!
2007-02-06 10:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there are children then she's wasting her time. He very well may love her but if he was going to leave he'd have done it by now. Children are the main reason....many men would rather stay in a relationship that's not perfect to avoid being part-time dads.
BTW I suspect that if women weren't so easily granted custody you'd see more of them staying married too.
2007-02-06 18:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by digdowndeepnseattle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should move on. She should find her own man. Does he have family? If so.. this other woman is only going to destroy that too.. Why would this person even want to step in and always be known as the home wrecker? It seems maybe she has her won issues.. like commitment issues.. she can't make one.. goes after a married man.. knowing he can't make a full comittment.. Karma... works in wonderous ways..
2007-02-06 18:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand they rarely if ever leave their wives. And if they do, it's only a matter of time before he does it again. An affair is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS a no-win situation.
2007-02-06 17:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually read as well that most men don't end up leaving their wives. instead the one's who have an affair, want to have their cake and eat it too. but there's women that way too.
2007-02-06 17:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to leave his wife he would leave his wife. They may be "existing" but something keeps them both there and she "the lover" is just giving him the best of both worlds.
2007-02-06 18:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by HollyBean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 50% of them who start off with cupcakes that become corn-fed cows.
2007-02-06 21:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He leaves his wife for the other woman. Then he leaves her for another woman. Then he leaves her for another woman ********* on and on
2007-02-06 17:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋