How to nicely get rid of a friend?

Question

I have a firend named mike we started out likeing him cause he was nice, But now hes getting annoying hes doing so many things worng like
1)lying about his sexuality and saying he has boyfriends over when he really doesnt!!
2) hes touching us way to much i like hugs but not an overload of them every second
3) hes acting totally imature when hes older than us he has no right to act that way!!
so tomrrow me and my friends are going to get rid of him we just don't know how to do so that we don't totally crush him!!

okay i didn't make it clear we are 14 and hes 16 and i just found out today that he told my othe friend that when he was younger he was tested to see if he was a molester so nnow that i found that out its soo uncofortable

Answer 1

Mike is not your friend.

Tell him you don't want to hang around with him any more.

Answer 2

First, you don't necessarily need to get rid of him, if all you want is for him to stop the inappropriate behavior. The best option to do this would be to have the closest one to speak to him in private. And if you do want to "drop him" as a friend, it would less cruel if individually you let him know that you didn't really want to hang out with him any more. Getting dumped by one person is bad enough (or 1 at a time), but getting dumped by a whole group of people could cause someone some stability problems, especially if they are already prone to it, such as a young, homosexual, immature male might be. Take it easy on him, or you might push him over the deep end.

Answer 3

As you are obviously between the ages of 10 and 14, that's easy. Tell him your mommy won't allow you to hang out with anyone she doesn't approve of.
** Ahh, see...I knew you were a teenie...you are "hearing things" about this boy and are making a BIG issue out of nothing. At 14 you are not making a lifetime commitment to anyone. You are just learning who you want to hang out with. May I make a solid, sincere suggestion: stop gossiping about ANYONE to your circle of buddies. People who gossip behind other people's backs do this to everyone. The minute one of your socalled friends gets a bit peeved at you for anything, she/he will gossip about YOU. Life goes by quickly and you should be enjoying your school days, not spending time saying nasty things about another teenager. Tell the boy IN PRIVATE (not in front of others - that's even MEANER!!) that you don't have anything in common and some things he does make you uncomfortable. Mention the inappropriate hugging. How can a person change if no one tells them what is annoying?! Tell him the conversation is between the two of you and that you think you'd rather not hang out with him for awhile. Period. then STOP being mean, stop the gossip. If your so-called friends have nothing better to do than gossip, change the subject to "Idol" or Timberlake or something more fun. You can be the leader in this! Only dumb sheep follow blindly and it is vicious wolves who run in packs, destroying everything in their way! Human beings are supposed to be smarter. You're at an age where you can decide to grow UP, not down. I hope you'll do the right thing.

Answer 4

Ok, well I dont think you should get rid of him completly. I have a friend like that but I dont want to hurt him, so I put up with him. When he touches me, I tell him he does that too much and he should stop because I do NOT like it. And when he lies, say its fine, you know what he was doing and thats fine but not to lie to you again. Tell him that you would like him to act a little more mature. You guys are younger, so you want him to AT LEAST act your age. Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

you may no longer worry approximately him being overwhelmed or harm, which will maximum in all probability take place, yet you do might desire to be respectful approximately it and choose your words properly. i might look him in the attention and say:" .....i'm sorry, yet i do no longer prefer to spend time with you anymore. I wish you nicely." this is it. don't get right into a communicate or argument in case you relatively intend to end this courting. via ways, boys mature later than females, so him being older would not propose a lot.

Answer 6

Even I'm mad that him at he is touching up way too much so tell him that you have been cheating on him a lot and the only way you will feel good about yourself is that you never see him ever again. It will be very, very difficult but you promised god to take that as a punishment for you being a cheater for so long.

Answer 7

Why did you consider him a friend in the first place then? Good friends are hard to come by and by the time you graduate school-you'll be lucky to count your really good friends on one hand.
Try talking to him alone-tell him your concerns, maybe there is something else going on with him and he doesn't know how to say it.
How would you feel, if a group of your "friends" dumped you-it would suck! Try talking to him

Answer 8

There is no nice way to get rid of a friend.You can be polite but he will still be upset , but by the sounds of it you are making the right decision , he sounds like a flake.

Answer 9

tell him you dont feel comfortable around him or just say nicley not rude that hes just way to immature and unless he wants new friends he has to change. if u dot want to go down that road just give him the cold shoulder or dont give him any reasoni to assume your friends anymore

Answer 10

just tell him u are not comfortable with him acting like dat and to just chill out and don't be too needy!thats the best i can do goodluck

Answer 11

If he's afriend you dont get rid of him
Make him the enemy then get rid of him.
Get together and quietly talk to him one by one.