I think this is very funny because we probably all wonder WHO IS THE TRICKIER SEX? You know, us women or the men... Anyway as a woman I was "caught" cheating and it's ironic about how guilty and sorry I felt after I was found out. For months I felt bad about the ordeal and wanted so much to make it up to my partner. And low and behold! Guess what! A year later after not being able to forget my greatest sin, I was slapped in the face with the knowledge that HE had cheated on me too! I thought about "getting revenge" but the feeling I got was so aweful. That feeling of being betrayed and knowing how it feels to be cheated on is the most humiliating and hurtful experience I have ever had. I can laugh now but I'd never want to cheat again. All in all both sexes get hurt eventually.... you may think your the trickier one but look out you may also be getting tricked.. ta ta.
2007-02-06 09:30:39 · 11 answers · asked by Serene Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YEP, 2 wrongs don't make it right. You learned a good lesson. Profound isn't it? too bad most people learn too late, things happen for a reason, good luck to ya!
2007-02-06 09:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is no laughing matter. Plus if you found out he was cheating, I take it you did not ask him. My guess is someone is just stroking your esteem trying to make you feel better. Well, don't. Cheating is a horrible, self centered, immature, and wrong reaction. Very rarely are there two cheaters in one relationship. Ask him, unless you're worried to find the truth.
2007-02-06 09:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost did by chatting w/someone online. IT was the most sexually powerful experience of my life. Then "my profile" was discovered in the "history"/net. I was in church praying for my marriage and my profile was being read to me by spouse. So we talked (no never spoke on phone w/the other person, nor cheated physically--do not thing I would've been able to handle it quite frankly!!) but hope karma doesn't come back to hurt me. Dam*it
anyway we're trying to work things out as I've felt incredibly neglected. But are working on things slowly.
Been seeking other avenues to fulfill myself. Funny how if your fulfilled in most area's in ur life, your not so inclined to cheat in any type of way. But fulfilling yourself is indeed a self-discovery process and takes time to incorporate ur needs in ur life. Then the happier you become, it fortunately and greatly effects ur marriage. Yes, life lessons as such have a VERY funny way of teaching us what we need to know.......then the healing begins.
2007-02-06 09:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree wholeheartedly.
If you cheat, and then get cheated on yourself, then quitcherbitchin. You had it comin...
And revenge never fixes anything, but it sure does feel good in the short term.
2007-02-06 09:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this is where the phrase "You reap what you sow" comes into play.
I know this was a hard lesson, but glad to know that you learned something from it.
2007-02-06 11:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. i did no longer tell him, and he by no potential found out. the only time i became into cheated on he advised me after he dumped me. 2. My boyfriend and that i had considerable intercourse issues - as in he needed to have intercourse, on well-known, as quickly as a month, and that i could no longer manage it. the guy who cheated on me did it simply by fact...nicely, he became into youthful and needed extra intercourse. 3. I did remorseful approximately it, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that it additionally helped me get the braveness to end issues. He advised me he did remorseful approximately it. 4. by no potential found out. 5. No, i would not, in basic terms simply by fact i do no longer think of it relatively is the the superb option thank you to bypass approximately ending a courting. I could have completed it respectfully. 6. It did with me. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, maximum people who cheat gain this simply by fact they like the exhilaration of being with somebody they do no longer seem to be meant to be with. regularly, it has no longer something to do with the guy. 7. sure. 8. No, i would not do it lower back. 9. i'm getting aggravated whilst i think of of it happening to me or different persons, in basic terms simply by fact i think of people cheat for extremely stupid motives. 10. As I stated, I did it simply by fact my boyfriend and that i've got been having severe intercourse issues that he would not even communicate approximately. i assumed i needed to be with him, in spite of our themes, yet after fooling around with a guy chum, i found out that what i became into lacking became into intimacy with a guy.
2016-10-01 13:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to cheat, then you should not be married. There are people that do not cheat; not many, but there are some.
2007-02-06 09:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know how it feels. Feel like **** don't it.
2007-02-06 09:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you answered your own question
2007-02-06 09:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by zachsgrammy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheaters are trash
2007-02-10 07:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋