Am i alone are or there others like me who wish that they could just turn there baby daddy into another person of your liking. Because the current one is such a dissapointment.
Im starting a movement yall
lolol
2007-02-06 09:10:59 · 20 answers · asked by Queen of Da Trill 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Shoot yeah. I don't even deal with my kids father anymore. He wanted nothing to do with them if we couldn't be together. NOT!He's a butthead. I don't have time to raise an extra child. That was his mother's job.
2007-02-06 09:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Monique 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Ok, heres my thing... I'm not sticky up for these dead beat dads, but come on, I dont feel sorry for you. You choose to have sex with these men, and I'm sure there were some clues that they were "buttheads" before you let them in your pants. Mabey next time you should do a little background investigation first. If he has other kids ith other women, chances are hes not gonna stick around when you get knocked up either.
Not all men are like that. You just gotta keep your pants on long enough to find one.
2007-02-06 09:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just a curiosity question here. Why did you decide to sleep with him before you knew him well enough to know what he was like? Why would you want to put yourself in the position that you dislke the father of your child from pretty much the start? Sorry, but I just don't get it. At least get to know the guy before you sleep with him.
*prepares herself for all the thumbs down that will rain down upon her for speaking nothing more than simple truth*
2007-02-06 09:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like they say it takes a Boy to make a Baby but a Man to raise one and look for m. how dare you call anyone in her situation stupid ok, because in my situation my kids dad was a good person in the beginning before and after I got pregnant but its just he got caught up in some thins that I just didn't agree with so I left him and he just because a dead beat father so you are know one to call any of these girls stupid and say that she is on welfare just cause she is in that situation does necessarily mean she has to be on welfare because I am a good example I have 2 kids 4 and 2 and one on the way and I do have a boyfriend but I am working a good dame job going to school and taking care of my kids with out the help of anyone so you need to take that comment about these women in that kind of situation say that their stupid and another girl on welfare and stick it up your a hole and never say never about you being on welfare
2007-02-06 09:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I intensely dislike (my mom said don't use 'hate') the whole baby mama/baby daddy thing. It's rooted in irresponsibility and chaos while a child suffers. Stay away from the whole mess! It's better to have no man at all than one who is always on the prowl for another baby mama to increase his ego. And yes, that's the worst danger of all, that you'll become an additional 'baby mama' to add to his chain, which is his life's goal.
2016-05-24 00:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so blessed that i have never experienced that. But, my brother is like that and as much as i hate to say it he's the spitting image of my father...a born loser. It's one thing to have a child with a man like that because you can always leave but having a dead beat father in your own family, that's just embarrassing!!
2007-02-06 09:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately too many men these days are worthless. You're definitely not alone. Just do the best you can for your child and never put the father down in front of the baby, it just makes you look bad. The child will grow up knowing who took care of the him/her and what a butthead the father was.
2007-02-06 09:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by truly_insightful 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I don't understand u woman.You are the one that picks them.I say u should of known them before u slept with them.The only one that really suffers is the child.So I'm sorry but u need to try and get along with him for the sake of your child.
2007-02-06 09:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like your problem you shoul have worked on getting a husband a house or even the ring before getting laid and getting preggy baby be smart next time
i am 19 with all that how old are you before you nee dto get smart just saying baby
but for real this guys don't do nothing but drop their load in stupid gurls who let them i see it all the time now you are just another gurl on welfare
2007-02-06 09:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by m. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're not alone!! I might be pregnant and if I am.. the guy just got with this other chick so I'm going to have to go through hell if I am!!!! And my dad is a deadbeat alcoholic.
2007-02-06 09:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look babe trade him in!
There are lots of guys out there that want the pleasure but not the rsponsibility. They aren't worth a cracker to you.
Go look for a guy that loves you for who you are not for your body. There are even guys who will love your child. You are a very special package deal for those guys that want instant family. There are a lot so don't think they don't exist, they do.
Might even want to chat you up myself Good hunting!
2007-02-06 09:22:48 · answer #11 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋