School trouble.?

Question

I keep getting into fights at school. Why? All my teachers hate me. Why? There's a rumor going aroud saying that I've been sleeping around when i've had a boyfriend for 4 years. Why?
Some HELP!

Answer 1

Why, you ask? Because it's school, hun. It's like taking a handful of random kids, shoving them into a stuffy classroom, and expecting them to all be best friends. Actually, it's exactly that.

What you need to do is take control of your life. You've been getting into fights at school? Well, why? Is someone else starting it, or are you the problem? No matter what the answer is, you need to ignore that little voice inside your head that is screaming at you to take a wack at her, and remember that you are doing this to save your repuation. If someone keeps bothering you, resist. Walk away, or come up with some snazzy comeback. But don't fight back. Fighting back is like forfeiting. It's not the beginning of the war- it's the end.


So all your teacher's hate you, huh? That's pretty typical. There will always be good teachers and bad teachers. Mean teachers and nice teachers. Boring teachers and insteresting teachers. Blonde teachers and brunette teachers. Pretty teachers and ugly teachers. Teachers of every kind. Whether they love you or not is not completely under your control, but you do have some influence. What are doing that makes your teachers give you the evil eye? Do you do your homework? Do you particpate? Do you get caught breaking the rules often? The only answer is to change your behavior. Type your homework. Raise your hand, write an apology letter. Bring an apple! What ever it takes to win your teacher's heart.


A rumor that nasty means 1.) In some way, shape, or form, you some how created the foundation for such a hideous rumor 2.) You have alot of rivarls (which would explain the fighting) OR 3.) Your school is filled with digusting freaks that like to pick on innocent girls. (Stories of our lives...)

Anyway, first of all you need to explain the truth to your boyfriend and your friends in case the hear about the rumor. If you feel the need to go to guidance or the office if the whispering gets too out of hand, go for it, girl! Or you can always just sass anyone who brings it up. Either way, every rumor bruns down. Just like a fire. If people stop talking about it (taking wood from the fire) then it gets old. If everyone has heard about it (theres no air left in the fire) it dies quickly because theres no one to tell. The only way to get a rumor going again is to tell alot of more people, but eventually it will burn down that way too.

It may feel like everyone is talking about you. Staring at you. Thinking bad thoughts. Just rememeber that no one cares. They do it because of the thrill. You know it's not true. Your friends know it's not true. So live it down. Be strong, keep your head up. Whoever started that nasty rumor probably was just jealous becasue you've had a boyfriend for four effing years!

Answer 2

PPL ARE JUST JEALOUS NEXT YR THEY'LL BE SAYING THE SAME ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE SO DONT EVEN LET IT GET TO YOU. IN FACT YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE THEM BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH THERE HATING ON YOU THERE STILL TAKING TIME OUT OF THERE DAY TO THINK ABOUT YOU SO REALLY YOUR THE IMPORTANT ONE. JUST SHRUG IT OFF AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP ALWAYS.

Answer 3

Teachers do not hate ya! If they show that, they acually love ya! You must be popular.Why the fights?