my wife is not interested in sex since last few weeks. when ever i ask her , she says she is not in mood. we didnt have fight recently. i dont know what's wrong with her.
2007-02-06 09:03:41 · 27 answers · asked by long_joy_stick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately, it's a common thing for married women to go through. Sometimes I have the same issue and it's no fault of my husband! It's just that the feeling or mood never strikes for a certain time. Is she due to have her period? Has she changed jobs or undergone other major changes in her life recently? Analyze those things first before you get upset thinking it's something you did or didn't do or jump to the conclusion that she's "getting somewhere else". That's probably not the case. It's hard for you, but try not to pester her about it or make a big deal - she probably is already mindful of the fact despite not being able to make changes to fix the problem just yet. But you bugging her about what's wrong will only push her away; at least it does in my case. Be patient.
2007-02-06 09:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by ckgusto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is about to start her period soon, when i have pms, i don't feel like having sex, but as soon as i start my period i'm in the mood the whole time. i get right horny that time of the month, maybe she does too.
wait until she starts her period, and than work your magic, where the cloths that she likes the most on you, and do things for her that she really likes. run her a nice bath with some candles, give her a back massage when she gets out, and take things from there. this always gets me going. it's worth a shot. and she will really appreciate it. if she asks why you are doing all these things for her out of the blue, bring up the fact that you guys haven't had sex in a while, and that you thought it might have been because she was losing interest in you, so you wanted to start doing nice things for her.
good luck.
2007-02-06 17:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be lots of things--us girls get in and out of the mood for different reasons. Trying doing something romantic, give her a great back or foot rub, help her with the house--we find all that stuff sooo sexy. Tell her out of the blue she looks nice, or just give her some attention without trying to initiate sex. It can be a real turn on when your hubby goes out of his way to be a great hubby. Could just be she is over worked, stressed, or not feeling good. Sometimes things just get "old" and we need to make more effort to get our spouses interested. Good luck!
2007-02-06 17:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have been feeling like this for a long time but just did not have the heart to tell you.. I would say that maybe now its just too much and she can not take it anymore.. What is wrong with her could be the fact that you do not take the time to do things that please her, maybe there is just no passion there.. it could be alot of things.. i would suggest that you take a shower, shave and slap on some cologne then try seducing her with some candle light, music and wine.. if that does not work then..i dont know
2007-02-06 17:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things, shes probably got a bunch of problems in her head and doesnt feel comfortable doing it,i would suggest u talk to her bout it.Tell her it doesnt bother u but u just want her to be happy in any situation and if theres anything u can do she can trust u to help her out.Or she lost the romantic side of sex then just be more romantic girls will take it as an act of pleasure and not an act of love sometimes.Just talk to her would be my best advice.Ask God to help u in this situation afterall he created marriage.God Bless.
2007-02-06 17:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't either. Why a woman would deny herself a good time in bed with her husband is beyond me. Maybe she''s just selfish.
I suppose whenever she demands you do something for her around the house, tell her you're not in the mood. You know what they call payback.
2007-02-06 17:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you 2 need to have a serious heart to heart talk, if she is being flritatious with other men or seeing someone, you need to get it out in the open, a loving wife would tell her husband the problem, a deceitful wife will just shrug her shoulders, is she dressing nicer lately and wearing more make-up? going out more? or have you gained weight? how are your hygiene habits?
2007-02-06 17:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she really isn't in the mood. you never know. maybe she just needs sometime to relax or maybe she feels like all you want is sex. so she is making you take a break. you never know women are insanely complex and get angry or hurt for no reason at all
2007-02-06 17:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's stress, sometimes women lose their sex drive. Talk to her about it . Ask if there's something wrong, or give her some extra attention in a playful way.
love notes,sexy emails, funny jokes, etc...
2007-02-06 17:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by marnan97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your joystick is too long.lol Let her be, it could be a woman thing. And if you are asking her for sex like you said. That could be the problem. If my husband ask me I always say no. If he comes on to me and turns me on then that is way... different.
2007-02-06 17:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋