why does my husband look at girls who wear skimpy things, but won't let me even show a little cleavage?

Question

My husband Doesn't own me, but when he feels strongly about something I choose to respect that.

Answer 1

because he is more than aware of the thoughts he thinks when he looks at those women, and he doesn't want guys thinking those things about his wife

Answer 2

Look honey, My husband does the same thing and I always tell him If you like to look at those other girls than I am going to start dressing like them, so you can look at me. Then right away he says "I'm a guy and all guys look besides you are my wife and I know how you look naked, but sometimes when we look it just to see something different. You know what I started doing. When He looks at the other girls i act like I don't even care anymore. I even throw little comments like Oh she's cute, do you want me to ask her for her phone number for you!. He hasn't been loking as much as before maybe it's because he used to look to make me jealous and i would get mad and when I started to not care anymore he didn't have a way to make me jealous anymore. Try these things and see what happens. Good Luck chica!

Answer 3

Because he respects you. When he sees women wearing skimply clothes, what does he see? Their body. He doesn't think about their personality, or who they are as a person. He sees their body. And you are his wife, he doesn't want men looking at you the way he is looking at girls who dress skimpy. He doesn't want people to get a shot of what he's got. He's got you, he doesn't want other men to see your cleavage, thats for him to see! Maybe he's a little insecure. Showing a little cleavage I think is okay as long as it's done with some class and dignity. Either way, your husband just loves you and respects you. Bottom line. He doesn't want other men oggling at you!

Answer 4

Dude no offense, but your husband sounds like a controlling freakazoid. If you were dating I'd be all "dump him" but I won't :D

*clears throat* ANYWAY, yeah he does it because he doesn't want other guys to check you out the way he's doing so to those girls (ew). Tell him he's being unfair and bring up rights n stuff..you are a grown woman you should decide what you can wear!

Especially since he sounds like a hypocrite (tell him so girl!).

Yes, so, he wants you all to himself while he's having eye sex with other women. Sorry this is harsh but you man needs a talking to...

Answer 5

Because he knows what he's thinking when he looks at a girl who wears skimpy things. He doesn't want other guys doing that to you.

Answer 6

Because he knows your hot and doesnt want other guys looking at you. I wouldnt ever dress in a way that shows much anyway but my husband use to be the same way he never told me I lookied good and if he did it was to shut me up so that we could leave the house. Then he told me that I am hot but never said anything because he didnt want it to go to my head thats really what he said to me. I hope I am right.

Answer 7

He "won't let you"? What are you, his under-age daughter? What else doesn't he "let" you do? Dance, eat dinner on Fridays, stay up past midnight? He sounds like a control freak. When he dishes out what he lets and won't let you do, it's not about cleavage, it's about control. As long as you're fine with it, you will have to play by his rules, end of story.

Answer 8

Women dress like this to get male attention, fact of life and your husband or any other non-gay man (plus most other women and gay men) are going to notice a bimbo with her boobs hanging out. That basic instinct in itself has little to do with faithfullness, love, commitment, or coveting. Now why do you want to advertise your wares like the bimbo's you are describing. Does he walk around with a thong on and D*** hanging out, why should you?

I think you are actually winning the most childish contest here.

Answer 9

He's a pig. My husband does not do this in my face. I know all men are gonna look, but my husband has enough respect for me that he does not do that while I'm around

Answer 10

Because men would rather look at other girls wearing clothes like that than their wives wearing stuff like that they would rather see the wife wearing an apron. Also,most men believe that their wives are their "property",and shouldn't show off their body to anyone but them.

Answer 11

Its guy thing ma'am. We always look at sexy and attractive sights. you know the one that makes the heads turn. that is normal. most often this happens with some bad thoughts playing in the head. your husband is just protecting you to these thoughts. hope you'll understand...