Ok so the place I work for is having a valentine delivery thing. for three dollars you can send a cup full of candy to someone with a balloon and messge on it.
I am still in love with my ex. we are friends now, and I dont think he is ready for anything cause he just came out of a relationship, I dont even know if he considers me that way anymore. Would it be bad to send one to him?
2007-02-06 08:55:30 · 6 answers · asked by wantme_comegetme 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Maybe you can send one that doesn't try to imply more than friendship. Maybe say something like "Just thought you could use this to brighten your day". Or maybe send it anonymous, if you're worried what his reaction will be.
2007-02-06 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by country_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always show that you still care by playing the friendship card. If you two are still close you could send him something with a friendly note and not necessarily a romantic one. Then he knows you still maybe it could lead to more when things settle down for him a bit. You might want to hint that you still have feelings for him, but only if he seems to be receptive towards gestures such as the valentine. I say at least give it a try, and show him you care.
2007-02-06 17:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sometimes I just wonder why... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him, go for it. Just bring it on slowly. On your card, you might can say," I know you just came out of a bad relationship....and I'm here to help anytime. Just call me." And you should be a listening ear if he wants to come and talk to you about his past relationship or anything. He'll come around. Just be a good friend and he'll fall in like with you sooner or later. :)
2007-02-06 17:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by flyychyc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can send one that doesn't try to imply more than friendship. Maybe say something like "Just thought you could use this to brighten your day". Or maybe send it anonymous, if you're worried what his reaction will be.
2007-02-06 17:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by brooke b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it would be bad. There are too many men out there for you to be pining away for one who doesn't feel the same. Keep him as a friend, move on romantically.
2007-02-06 17:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki's Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you sure need to think twice about it... but it wouldn't be that bad,... we only live once... go for it... if he likes it well good ..if he doesn't ....it didn't hurt trying...
if he would -whatever- with it... there are plenty other men on earth to worry about it....
go for it!...
2007-02-06 17:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋