My bf is 22 and i am 18 going on 19 and in college love him we are engagged.Only thing is he goes to another college and lives on campus and i live at home and commute to school and wont be living on my college campus till this of year.So i have a curfew a midnight curfew during the week and a 1:00 in the morning curfew on the weekends.My bf however stays out till 3-4 in the morning and seems to be getting bored with me because i cant.He is also a frat guy and other girls pick up his cell phone sometimes when i call?and sometimes fall asleep in his room so he says. But he says he loves me and would never cheat?
2007-02-06 08:50:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel so confused its like he gets into my head and knows what to say
2007-02-06 08:52:27 · update #1
He's cheating. DUMP HIM!!! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with him? If you're having doubts now, they're only going to be magnified when you get married. You are really too young to get married anyway. Go out and get an education, then settle down.
2007-02-06 08:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by LP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if your b/f loved you that much he would understand that your education is the most important thing at the moment. He would probably expect you to be fine if it was the other way around. You should ask him that. An for the girls falling asleep in the room thing i would defenatly not accept that i dont care what any guy says if he is drunk and there is girls falling asleep in his room an answering his phone i would be very worried.
2007-02-06 09:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engaged and underage. It sucks but this is a bad start to your future together. Girls picking up his phone, whether he knows it or not, is bad. No one should have his phone but him. Especially if he's expecting calls from you. You're young. Hang out with some other guys, as friends. Just so you can get a feel for turn-ons and turn-offs. This will help you decide if your bf is worth going through all this for.
2007-02-06 08:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by kane_derick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him hes cheating on you wake up smell the coffee you know the answer and yet you don't see it.. I'm sorry to say no one picks up the phone and a guy who is getting married will not have girls over or do anything to make you think he is... wake up babe he is not for you and it sounds like your not for him they way he is acting he would be with you not at parties.. Good luck.. the truth hurts but it will be better in the long run better now then later after marriage this way it saves you money... use it on your education.. no wedding no divorce......money in the pocket...
2007-02-06 08:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are young and in the prime years of your lives. Date other people. I know I've been with my husband since I was 16 and though I love him I wish I would have waited to settle down. Your boyfriends having fun and sowing his wild oats, give him some space and keep your options open.
2007-02-06 08:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by crazychica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you cause no girl just falls asleep in a guys dorm okay they are there for one thing and one thing only. Other girls pick up his phone ? what do you need a brick to fall on your head ? he is lying to you . he is cheating find someone you can trust . good luck honey.
2007-02-06 10:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust anyone. your parents are trying to protect you thats good. Don't believe him. Guys know what to say to get in a girls head.Hope you find someone you can trust.
2007-02-06 08:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say ,but he's probably cheating.
If he is so in love with you then, he needs to bring his partying ways down a notch.
Surprise him with a visit if at all possible, besides your too young to settle down.
2007-02-06 08:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by marnan97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating. Why would girls fall asleep in his dorm. Why are they there???
You are nieve.
Get rid of him.
Wear a rubber if you don't. There are lots of STD's in college
2007-02-06 08:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAOO!! Sawie sweetie, but if girls are sleeping in his room and answering his phone... that alone should knock some sense in to you!!!! HELLOOOOO
2007-02-06 08:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋