ME and my fiance are both Taureans. We do have A LOT in common and have a strong attraction BUT he seems WAYY more stubborn and bullish than me. Also somewhat unimaginative. Lazy too very LAZZZYYY.I really dont think Im stubborn or closed minded at all. I exercise and keep in shape too. He's starting to make me crazy.Is this a match made in hell?????
2007-02-06 08:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by lovebug512 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
First, if he's driving you crazy, signs put aside, you should reconsider your relationship... or if you are already doing that (seems so), delay marriage until you're sure, and possibly mention this to him. You aren't even married and you're out (way out) of the honeymoon phase.
Second, I'm a taurus and have a twin sister who's older by 5 minutes. The truth is, sometime I think it was all a mistake, that I was supposed to go to some sain family up north, or far, far away from here (Florida), be an only child and live happily ever after. Sometimes all I can think is how she can make steam come out my ears, and how well she pushes my buttons and stands her ground until I feel like crap. But you know what, sometimes I catch myself being imperfect (rarely, I must say...), pushing her until she looks like she'll cry, and I realize I'm just as strong as she is.
The point is, you may not think you're stubborn, that the person sitting across from you is a total jerk, possibly the biggest in the history of humanity, but I dare you to say it out loud. I wonder how many responses, instances, examples, whatever, you will get from that person to show just how stubborn, lazy, and (no offense intended, but hey, gotta be fair, right?) a little close- minded.
You're engaged, are you not? So you are a couple made in heaven, as long as you want to be.
He's unimaginative? How so? How did he propose? Is he romantic? How about spontanety? I'm sure once he did something nice for you, but doesn't feel like he has to be so imaginative or "Just Because" thoughtful, because he has you and doesn't have to fight for your attention and love anymore. If you want that back, why not trying it for him, and the gesture will likely be returned.
These traits belong to all of of us (Wonderful!) Taureans, but they should NOT decide who to spend the rest of your life with. The stars can decide, I can decide, anyone else can make the decisions for you, but you asked a question, so let me give an answer.
Don't let ANYONE make this decision for you. This is your life, just remember not to use your head (one of the few places you'll hear these words), use your heart.
Good Luck;)
2007-02-06 11:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If those things bother you now, then don't get married because if you think they annoy you now......... You will hate him for those same things later on.
Nothing to do with both being Taureans. Although I am married to one and find he is not lazy, he just needs a push every now and then. And I know two Taureans that have been happily married for over 30 years.
2007-02-06 18:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ou can both be single-minded about what you want . If you disagree, resolution is difficult. But when you share the same goals this is an unbeatable combination.
Taurus Female- Taurus Male
The Taurus woman is likely to be spending most of her time on the horizontal. Both the Taurus woman and the Taurus man love sensual pleasure and both enjoy indulgence. There’s lots of silent tenacity and mutual defiance out of the bedroom, but a wonderful earthy rapport as long as both the Taurus woman and the Taurus man remember to communicate.
Taurus Male- Taurus Female
The Taurus woman is likely to be spending most of her time on the horizontal. Both the Taurus woman and the Taurus man love sensual pleasure and both enjoy indulgence. There’s lots of silent tenacity and mutual defiance out of the bedroom, but a wonderful earthy rapport as long as both the Taurus woman and the Taurus man remember to communicate
2007-02-06 18:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by xxmysticbutterflyxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK with this match....my sis inlaw and her hubby lasted 10 years..both taurus..but rotten marriage...HE was stubborn, lazy, selfish, egotistical.....all the traits.....cheater. she was much different....
do a birthchart for each of you and check your rising signs...that makes a big difference and influences you each more.
www.astralabe.com
2007-02-06 16:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋