so i was in a relationship for 7 years we have been on a break for 5 months but we continued to sleep together. during the time of the 5 months he said he wanted a baby..well i am now 3 months prego and he has a new gf! what the hell should i do?
2007-02-06 07:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
learn from this mistake
2007-02-06 08:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a hard situation, I am sure of it. But here's my 2 cents worth.
1. Do not get back together for the baby, that will make everyone miserable.
2. Decide what YOU want as far as this baby is concerned.
3. Be open and honest with him about it, particularly if you decide to keep the baby.
4. If you need help, seek it. (Family, friends, counseling... whatever you need)
2007-02-06 08:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave him. Odvious this guy does not know what he really wants. So just leave. As for your baby you can get him for child support once paternity has been established. He does need to take care of his responsibility financially. You do not need a guy like that in your life. Just move on. In time you would meet someone that is going to love you and your baby. Tell his gf congrats you have a looser and my leftovers lol
2007-02-06 09:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know then you have to tell him. He should break up with his girlfriend and get back with you to make it work for the child. If he doesn't do that then see if he's willing to be part of the kids life. Always remember you are the one that needs to protect your baby. Try not to depend on anyone. It's tough, but you CAN do it!!
2007-02-06 08:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by jessiehenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have much of a choice, tell him what's going on and decide this together. Make sure he is alone and not with his g.f. you are going to have to make a decision about the future of the baby and if you are both going to get back together or stay appart and he is going to have to support the baby either way. Tell him now, don't wait....take care Heather
2007-02-06 08:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of his current relationship status, a baby is a shared responsibility. My advice to you is you have to tell him, you're pregnant. Whatever he decides afterwords will be on his behalf, he'll have to put things in prospective, on one hand the opportunity to be a father, or his new girl. In any case how involved he decides to be with the baby, is up to him, no matter what he decides do not refrain from collecting child support, that is your child's right to be financially secured.
2007-02-06 08:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Yesi20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on the baby! You don't say how old you are but you need to tell him. If he doesn't want the baby, I think you should put it up for adoption. Good luck!
2007-02-06 08:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him or either ask him to come over and tell him and if his gf gets in it be like mind ur own business
2007-02-06 08:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~L3_L3~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! looks like you are going to have to raise that baby yourself! you can do it! don't take any of his bull either. what does he say about this? i wouldn't continue to sleep with him either! you could get a disease!
2007-02-06 08:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by jacksonblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a new addition to the family. he is going to have to take responsibility for the child
2007-02-06 08:01:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋