I love my fiance and want to be with him forever, but he has an anger disorder and is always yelling at me or just mad at me. He is very depressed and I just don't ever seem to do anything right everytime he gets mad he says that he is going to leave. he is not the type to leave and then relize his mistake and come crawling back. I am finding it hard to talk to him because everytime I do he says that I am running my mouth and I just get yelled at more. He is also a bit of a freak in bed and wants me to sleep around and send him pictures of it, which there is no way I could ever do that. Does anyone have advise on what to do? Leaving him is not an option.
2007-02-06 07:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by tinytinkbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why is leaving him not an option? Then you are choosing to put up with his behavior. Why do you even bother asking for advice? I mean you only have 2 choices right....Put up or shut up! Your one of thoes people who probably loves the drama of your relationship. I bet you don't have a good relationship with your own father do you? I would never want to be with a girl who let me treat her like crap. What ever happened to standing up for yourself and not letting someone walk all over you. why don't you just sleep around, take pictures and then think about your value as a woman.
2007-02-06 07:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah why IS leaving him not an option? alright since I don't know your fiance and what kind of a person he is, I'll just tell you what I'd do. I would do either of the following:
1) threaten him that you will leave him
2) show him what an awesome person you are and how much you deserve to be treated better.
..but I'm a guy so I guess we might have different opinions
2007-02-06 07:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by psridhar2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tiny your fiance has plans for you & there not healthy.
If leaving him is not an option .Then you have made your
choice. Badddddd choice. What reason do you want to be treated like his porno princess.He has no respect for you. Verbil abuse. Get help/// thinking this is going to get better your dreaming . It thats 2-2 b in love not 1.
You derserve a lot better, Hope you think this out.
I can tell by your letter that you have in education
Please seek help before you get hurt ?????
2007-02-06 09:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your boy friend needs a counselor. Because that is not normal at all. It's seems that he tryed to put his problems or situation on you. which is not right at all. Alot of guys really don't know how to express themself and make you feel that you was the guiltity one. Also it seems that he loves women alot and you need to let him be byhimself because he;s not ready for an realtionship. So if i was you, you mite want to date around and wait on the lord to sent you some one.
2007-02-06 07:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must leave him ! This person is a total stranger and dangerous,you have to think of your own survival.Do not sacrifice your life trying to analyze his.Leaving him is your only option.He is a very sick man and needs more than anger management.He needs to be sectioned.
2007-02-06 07:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only 2 kinds of girls in this world. Ones who love themselves and find real love. And then girls who hate who they are so they will take whatever love comes along....take a guess at which one you are?
2007-02-06 07:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋