masturbation?

Question

im 14 and i was wondering do i masturbate to much i do it like 5 times a day i even tried it in school once ill sneek into the bathroom and sit in the stal and do it me and my friends will have contest of who will blow there load first but any way i just wanto no if i do it way to much and im starting to think im gay because i want to see my friends naked and want to masturbate(myself) in the same room as them am i gay or is this curiosity please awnser both questions

Answer 1

You're worrying waaay too much!! First off, masturbating 5 times a day is perfectly normal. Up to 10 times is normal, after that, it may be an addiction. Secondly, many teens your (and my) age wonder if they're gay because they wanna see other guys naked or they wanna have sex with other guys. There's nothing wrong with this, it's seriously just a phase. Your brain right now wants to explore new things, and find out who you truly are. Don't worry about it, there's guys your age that have had sex with other guys and then ended up having a happy marriage with a woman and having lots of kids!

Answer 2

I imagine its a curiosity thing and also a way of exploring your sexuality. although some might not admit to masturbating as much as you do,most boys your age do it quite frequently. As far as being gay. Ask yourself a few questions. Do you masturbate to the thought of girls and women as well? Are you attracted to girls? If the answer is yes then I wouldn't be concerned about wanting to see other boys masturbate. It is natural to want to see what others look like naked or in a sexual act. It only becomes a problem if it is getting in the way of other activities in your life...home work, sports, etc etc. Don't make an obsession about it...leave room in your life for other things that make you feel good.

Answer 3

Dude masturbation is not a physical addiction its really mental. You have taught you penis to get an erection every couple of hours. Just try to stop getting erections and soon the urge to do it will go away.
About masturbating with other guys... I am guessing you want to have a contest on who's penis is smaller? And if you go that far, probably you want your friends to masturbate you.
Plus, why would you masturbate in school...gosh your hands are probably dirty from the stairwell and all the stuff. You might get an infection.

Answer 4

Masterbating with dudes diffenatly means you're queer. No offense, but I hate queers. Here's why.
Every creature on Earth is designed to do one thing. Reproduce. IT is an event that has gone on since the creation of life. It is not a religious thing for me, it is the fact that humanity is taking a step backward when it considered gay people. What will happen when there are no longer women and men but men and men, women and women. Humanity would cease to exist because we disobeyed what our instincts told us. Sure masterbating alone is fine, masterbating with females is fine, but males together, hell no!

Answer 5

Your are totaly normal. Jerk off as much as yu want too, as long as you do not neglect yur other things in life. AS far as the games with the buds go, also fine for now , most of you will out grow the need for the games as you get older. Think about it, if you had girls willing to masterbate with you, im sure you would choose that, but your boys are wiling so thats what you think about. email meif you want to talk more about this.

Answer 6

Hah, whoa, to much info first off. You like to see guys naked? I guess thats ight. And the whole masterbation thing, I wouldn't know, but you should kinda excessive. Get around girls!!!! Just a phase.

Answer 7

Normal. I used to do it in my basement with my friend and my cousin when I was 14-16. We would just watch TV and wack.
No big deal.

Answer 8

That's not too much, I do it more than that everyday and the whole gay thing is alright too your just experimenting like me!

Answer 9

okay. im 14. i do it once a day. sometimes twice. and the whole beating it with your friends is pretty gay. sorry. but it is. im just giving you an honest answer like you wanted. and if you're so horny you have to do it in school, wow, you're just overly horny and just. no.

Answer 10

You masturbate too much when: your penis hurts from overwork; when your penis gets bruised from too much activity; when you have calouses on your right hand; when you do it in public; and when you do it in church. Otherwise enjoy Mrs. Palms and her five daughers.