How can you make a relationship and make sparks in the relationship. my boyfriend and I have been together for two months and the sparks have been fading. I love him and I dont want to loose him so how can I put sparks in the relationship.
2007-02-06 07:31:47 · 17 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep the romance from dieing........There are so many romantic things that can be done....If you are not sure of how to be romantic or run out of ideas invest in a book of ideas.....However it goes both ways to make it work and stay alive.......
2007-02-06 07:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good is dependent how lengthy you speakme about i've been with my boyfriend over a yr now and that i still need to be with him 24/7 and i use be a man or woman that did not want to relax. In the commencing of a relationship it's ordinarily extra entertaining than whilst you in a relationship for decades but that doesn't mean the spark will not be there is simply that you know him or her will at all times be there so you do not are attempting so rough and the one time you are attempting tough is if in case you have a fight. You some time get these moments when you need to tear each and every others garments off nevertheless it does occur as quite often because it does within the beginning of a relationship.
2016-08-10 15:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly relies upon how lengthy you speaking about i have been with my boyfriend over a year now and that i nevertheless pick to be with him 24/7 and that i exploit be a man or woman that did not pick to quiet down. interior the starting up of a relationship it really is often more effective interesting than once you in a relationship for decades yet that does no longer mean the spark isn't there is basically that you already know her or him will always be there so that you do not try so troublesome and the in uncomplicated words time you try troublesome is once you've a wrestle. you a even as get those moments once you pick to tear each others clothing off in spite of the undeniable fact that it does take position as typically because it does interior the starting up of a relationship.
2016-10-17 05:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one, as "sparks" come naturally and hard to invent. Maybe changing things up from your normal routine would work, tyring a dance class, or a new activitiy with him may definitely spark it. For example, I remodeled a home with a girl one time and it sparked our relationship as we saw a different side of each other.
2007-02-06 07:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youv'e only been together for 2 months and the sparks gone already!! try doing somthing new and different or go away for the weekend just the two of you maybe a weekend away will make you both remember why you were attracted to each other in the first palce or maybe it was more lust than love!
2007-02-06 07:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first two-three months, it's usually lust and infatuation. Once that wears off peole start running for the hills, when in reality, it's usually the dynamic of the relationship changing. You two start to get more comfortable with each other and trusting with each other and don't feel the need to put on airs to impress the other. You are starting to be yourselves. Go with it. If you feel it's fading be creative in keeping it interesting, but don't go overboard with it. And, remember to have fun, enjoy each other and just go with the flow for now.
2007-02-06 07:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot manually place sparks in a relationship, it has to happen spontaneously. Eventually we will settle into our relationships and live a long comfortable, content life with our mates.
2007-02-06 07:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sparks for me always come spontaneously
you cant plan them or 'put them into a relationship"
try something spontaneous-2 months is not enough
time to just give up, sparks are shortlived, but they
usually always re-appear if they were there to begin with
2007-02-06 07:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's only been two months and the sparks are gone, then something is seriously wrong....If it is meant to be, then you shouldn't have to work at it and make it happen, it should just happen.
2007-02-06 07:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by angelae93 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if the sparks are fading this early than how long do u think u can stay with him?..
id get rid of him...
i mean, id still b friends but still... i wont try and break my back for a longer stuggaling relationship..
but PLEASE PLEASE dont say i ruined anythng for u if u two do break up..
its just MY opinion!
2007-02-06 07:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋