hubby comes home,eats & passes out on couch,where he sleeps. Is it terribly wrong to be attracted to an old friend who is sexually attracted to you? To progress toan affair?
2007-02-06 07:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by ljh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she should tell her husband that he has to pay more attention to her and her needs.
2007-02-06 08:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your hubby, really talk to him and let him know exactly how your feeling. If there is still any hope for your relationship and if you still love him then try to work on it before you cheat. Once you cheat everything changes and there is no going back. You need to be sure of what you are feeling and what you want to do. Are things really that bad with your husband or are you looking for excuses to have an affair? Really think things out and if you want to pursue a relationship with the friend you really need to talk to your husband and ask for a separation. Goodluck
2007-02-06 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by paula0005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is 'terribly wrong' but ONLY if you have not tried having a 'serious talk' with your spouse and 'finding out what is really going on' with your spouse. S/he may be 'depressed' and need mental health counseling and medication before s/he may 'respond to you' or may be on 'medication' with 'negative side effects' or may simply be 'too stressed at work' and needs 'quiet and more sleep' than normal. If YOU have 'already' progressed to an affair then I think you need to 'stop thinking about yourself and try thinking about your spouse ... and if you haven't already 'strayed' then I think that you 'owe it to yourself' to see 'what is wrong with my marriage' before you do stray, because you could be throwing 'the best thing you could ever have away' for 'some sex' when maybe all you really need is a 'deep discussion' and the chance to 'hug' your spouse and stand by him/her while he/she 'gets better.'
2007-02-06 07:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is terribly wrong. Adultery is wrong no matter what. You married him right? That means for better or for worse. This may be the worst, but deal with it. Talk to your husband. Communication is the most important thing in marriage, and do not talk to your old friend. It will only make it harder for you to stay faithful. Don't forget, once you cheat on your husband, until the day you die, that stays with you. You will be an unfaithful wife. Don't do that to yourself, your husband, or to your marriage.
2007-02-06 07:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to stop being made easy to every guy in the World!!!!!! and no you should not get hooked up just to get your pie worked out, if your not happy and really truly wanna leave your husband, you need to set down and tell him that....if he does not want to make changes himself, then Leave!
2007-02-06 08:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should just tell him she is in NEED and if he won't help out, she will go elsewhere for it. If that doesn't work, get rid of him and move on.
2007-02-06 07:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pitiful. Get counseling and move !
2007-02-06 07:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Caysie101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not right
2007-02-06 07:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by CRYSTAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋