Has she gone off the rails. have any girls had expericnce of this sort of thing? is he after a passport or money. What do I do??? she is 46years old and he is 32...he is contacting her all the time one way or another help!!!
2007-02-06 07:13:27 · 11 answers · asked by bornagainandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are two options
1- They really love each other and according to your wife your marriage is over. It wouldn't make any difference if the guy is Turkish or Italiand or whatever.
2- Both of them are getting the benefit of it. Woman is getting pampered, 46 is a kind of dangerous age for women. They start feel that they are getting old and not beautiful anymore. The guy can be after passport.
Well, here we are talking about a 32 year old guy. Normally at that age, they are being settled down with a proper job and enough money. If he was in mid 20s, I would agree with most of the answers. But no, don't think that it is money.
Anyway, if I were you I wouldn't accept the divorce and prefer to wait a bit more if you love your wife of course.
2007-02-09 07:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pinar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic ! Read some of the women's mags and you find that lots of middle aged women fall for this line and often end up heartbroken when the Turkish guy dumps them once they re in Britain with a British passport! The Turks know how to make a woman feel special, maybe you should learn from that and MAKE HER FEEL SO SPECIAL that she stays with you!
2007-02-06 15:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend met a Turkish man 5 years ago. They have just had their first baby and he is the loveliest guy I have met. However when I went to Turkey several years ago, the Turkish men were all over me and I hated it. I felt that all they wanted was a passport and my money........ They like to be very flattering to women... and if you aren't used to that sort of thing from your other half it can be very persuasive
2007-02-06 15:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jojotraveller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably treats her like a princess, pays her lots of attention and she's feeling flattered even more by the fact that he's much younger than her. You're right, i would not be surprised at all if he was after a passeport, it happens all the time! Although i believe Turky is trying to join the EU... Well i feel sorry for you but she might come back to her senses when the novelty runs out... All the best anyway!
2007-02-06 16:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by sbro 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well turkish men doesnt care about passport, why should they?in Turkey some of the women are conservative so turkish man easyly falls in love with foreign ladies. Try to talk to her, he is loving her now but it can be only a crush
2007-02-09 13:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by lateine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm with kennyboy. Clear the accounts cancel the credit cards, get a good lawyer and get everything you deserve from this broad. Then sit back and laugh when she realizes she's been used by the turk.
2007-02-06 15:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is her name Shirley// why did you let her go to Turkey on her own in the first place but that's still no excuse for selling you down the river so my advice pal give her the divorce and perhaps she's doing you a favour
2007-02-06 16:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why married people does this to thier spouse and leave thier spouse hurting im seprated because of abuse but he cheated on me it hurts like hell it seems like a bad dream your wifes lover may be after the passport i heard they use women to get citensenship in united states that is alful i feel for you going threw it with your wife my heart is hurting i know yours is too
2007-02-10 11:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
passport and her money a route to this county for the rest of his family and then she will be out
2007-02-06 15:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit complaining, now you can get yourself a younger model.
good luck kby.
2007-02-06 15:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋