okkk ive been datin this guy 4 1yr and 6 months (im 15) both of us are virgins... i think i want him to be my first when im 18 but im not sure?? my opinion i think im too youn right now and i dont wanna make a mistake and make this somethin i regret so wat should i do?? some people me to gone head gowith my heart...but im too young to even know where my heart is goin
2007-02-06 07:13:00 · 24 answers · asked by mesha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to be careful and make sure this guy loves you for you, because it can happen that a couple waits to have sex and once they do, they guy dumps the girl the next day. But do it if your heart tells you to.
2007-02-06 07:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly loosing your virginity is a really big thing. Realize there is one thing you will never forget which is your first. So think wisely about the situation before just jumping to quickly. To be honest it sounds like you have your head on good. I lost mines when I was 16 and if I could honestly at 22 change that I would. I would say try to wait...if he is up for waiting then you are a lucky girl (if not and he cant respect your feelings then let him go). If you feel by 18 that you want to make him your first then its okay because you have actually put thought into it. But I would honestly say give it time. Dont rush things especially if you feel that everyone else around you is doing it cause alot of the times they really arent. They are just trying to say that to fit in...I think honestly you will make the best choice becuase no one can really give you that answer besides yourself. Hope I was helpful.
2007-02-06 07:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by babi_gurl513 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are 18 if you are still with him and love him and still feel the same way go for it but you are right about being to young at 15 let your brain do the thinking not your hart or your hormones
2007-02-06 07:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a sensible girl, i would wait if i were you, at 15 no matter how long you have been dating you are not old enough to responsibly do such an adult thing, especially with the possible consequences. wait until 18 then make that decision
2007-02-06 07:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by go away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you said was that you wanted to wait until you were 18. Responsible. Good job. Stick with that.
2007-02-06 07:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait, because if you plan on losing your virginity now, then you need to think twice and think about the consequences! Besides, don't make decisions that you're going to regret later!
2007-02-06 07:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely wait until you are 100% positive that you wont regret it. Soooo many people who start too early regret all of those early experiences. Go with your gut on this one.
2007-02-06 07:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, too young to know what your heart is really telling you. It's most likely temporary infatuation. When you are ready, you will know and not have to ask others what they think!
2007-02-06 07:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your 18
2007-02-06 07:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want. USE PROTECTION.
but wait till you're atleast 16.
many kids lose their virginity around 16.
losing your virginity doesn't mean the end of the world.
it will hurt like hell at first, but if you're willing to go through that immense pain for that guy, then go ahead.
it will feel good after the first 4 times (if you do it consistently)
2007-02-06 07:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by z0sancr 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋