I Love this guy. I am 17 and I new him for three years. I messed up when he asked me about who I had sex with. I had sex with his friends and to make it worse, I Had sex with like 12 guys. I got tested and I am not pregnate or infected with a disease. He told me not to call him anymore. He is mad. He said that he thought he was my first love. I love him and I don't know what to do to get him back. I have been emailing him and saying I was sorry. I havent spoke to him since he said that. It has been a week. Tell me please what to do. I love him alot.
2007-02-06 07:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
girl what the hell do you think they invented lying for u should have lied better luck next time
2007-02-06 07:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by ashley p 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you love his friends? Did you love the 12 other guys? Yeah...I thought not. Forget the guy and find someone who doesn't mind that you're 17 and promiscuous (always an attractive trait at your age). Get yourself enrolled in an English class, learn to spell and construct a simple question, find a job and improve yourself.
Oh and keep your legs closed.
2007-02-06 15:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that telling the truth was a mistake. If he truly loves you than he'll be back. I would also slow down in giving up the goods to that many people, you are way too young to have a total of 12 sexual partners. Honesty is the best policy although it hurts like heck to hear it, it's better to say it because ultimately he will find out and he wouldn't have been happy to hear this from his friends.
Did you also love the others? Is this why your giving yourself up so quickly? Try understanding that love is more than physical attractions and physical actions. Learn that their is more to it :)
Slow down...and like I said if he truly loves you he'll be back.
2007-02-06 15:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, at 17 you have no idea what love is. You need to quit obsessing about this guy and get your life straightened out. Gay or straight, you shouldn't be having sex with "like 12 guys."
http://www.find-a-therapist.com/
2007-02-06 15:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stranger In The Night 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think lying to others is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. I think you should listen to him and his needs.
I also think you should post such questions in "dating" where they belong, and not in the LGBT issues area, unless you are a guy dating a guy or girl/girl.
2007-02-06 15:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋