start thinking about the effects of leaving someone before we're even dating
2007-02-06 07:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
also, my relationships, whether friendship or otherwise, seem to last a year at the most before they seem to dissolve away, and just stop all of a sudden
2007-02-06 07:08:37 · update #1
maybe you need to be an optimist rather than a pessimist i think maybe you care more about losing a relationship and dont pay attention to your relationships whether it friends lovers or whatever!!
take on a more care free attitude and go with the flow.
"what will be will be" this is the perfect saying for you i feel in this instance.
take care and stop worrying so much hunny!! xxxx
2007-02-06 07:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by emmz-ee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be trying to save your own feelings first by being able to say you're the first to leave the relationship than saying you were "dumped"
Maybe take a look at why your relationships don't last long.
Depending on your age maybe you should just try dating different people before getting into a long term relationship.
If you really want to have a long term relationship you might try talking to family or friends who are already in long term relationships and ask them their secrets and tips for choosing the right person and staying together.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-02-06 15:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Transitory relationships usually occurr when one depends on the feeling of the moment as the criteria for decisions. Feelings lie, comittment holds on through the low spots.
2007-02-06 15:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because we all now deep down that nothing is forever. Fear makes you think of the worst thing that can happen and you focus on it, or maybe you just like drama!
2007-02-06 15:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by pigletsam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you think too much. Just relax and go with the flow.
2007-02-06 15:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by tiffantre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've given this a lot of thought and come to the conclusion your a saddo
2007-02-06 15:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by country boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you know that if something begins it will also end. but then again you could be seeing the future.
2007-02-10 14:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like drama?
Of you have serious issues.
2007-02-06 15:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer74781 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋