I have a baby gurl and i used to live with my babys father. Right now am not with him because we had been having alot of problem. I already gave him 4 chance. He wants me to back with him i love him but am not sure if i want to go back with him. I don't want to have the same problems again.What do you think i should do?
2007-02-06 07:07:24 · 12 answers · asked by chikita9 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is a reason why he's your ex. Yea, things may be fine again for a while but it always leads back to the same arguements that they were before. You need to place your daughter in a better environment.
2007-02-06 07:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably best for your daughter not to be around all the fighting , him throwing stuff at your head. Yelling. You should go back to school and do a vocational training course. Im not sure exactly what but I feel you have some skills in an area normally inhabited by men. Go to your local community collage ask what they've got. then go down to the caffeteria and ask for a job.
Dont let people who critise you take away your self asteem.
You worry about the top button on your jeans and think when this fits properly everything will be alright. Well its alright now!
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2007-02-06 13:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by maja lisa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!
Some relationships just don't work, and will never work. If it was bad enough for you to take the baby and leave, its not going to get better.
Think about this- do you want your baby girl to grow up in such an unstable way, with you and the father fighting all the time and so many problems, or would you rather just stay away from now on, and have the baby feel safe and secure?
I think staying away from such an unstable relationship is the best for the baby.
2007-02-06 07:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by melaniecampbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fallow ur heart, and make sure he loves u the same way u love him. I've always believed once u lose someone u love it's gone and if it comes back it more then love but if u lose it again it's not love but that's my thought. I'm 6 months pregnant i don't have the baby's father in my life he left when i found out i was pregnant after promising me if i would ever get pregnant he'd stand by me because he was in love with me but i misread him. I'm a soon to be single mom and i would give anything to be with my baby's father because i do still love him but in a way i rather be alone because he doesn't fell n e thing for me and doesn't care about our baby. But all I haveto say is fallow ur heart and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be,. Just make sure your not getting back together just for your little girl. because it wont work. It's better to come from a broken home then to live in one. And if your little girls See's her parents aren't happy she may not be happy as well. That's my opinion
2007-02-06 07:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by vanilla_gurl_140 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stay away. Four chances is three more than you need to prove that it just won't work. You WILL have the same problems. Stay apart but social and see how the relationship goes. Sometimes they can be better dads than partners.
2007-02-06 07:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by pittsburgh-girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you assert you do not pick your newborn to advance up with no father, yet you're keen to enable him advance up with no grandma or aunts & uncles because they're the variety of unfavorable impact. nicely, an similar rule applies. can't you note that he's only as undesirable as some thing of the kin? He could no longer enable them to chat about his newborn's mom in the front of him like that! that is going to create a project that is uncontrolled! enable me anticipate the destiny for you... quickly, his kin's (and his) body of recommendations in the route of you'll rub off on your newborn and also you'll gradually lose any appreciate that you've till he does no longer obey you in any respect. Why could he even as grandma or maybe daddy continually tell him how ridiculous and valueless you're??? issues at domicile and in school will fall apart. this can outcome in you coming down more durable on him and having to discipline him extra frequently, which will in common termspersistent him to pick to spend extra time at daddy's. At daddy's, each and every thing's extra relaxing and human beings are continually giggling (yeah, at YOU)! he will be nearing his youngsters through this element, too, which will in common words make him idolize All-issues-Dad. He may even insist on dwelling with him finished-time and consider gotten lost him continually. ultimately, your worry of him turning to gangs would ok come authentic. i wish i'm incorrect about all of this. extra perfect yet, i wish you're smart adequate to make your flow NOW even as your newborn continues to be youthful. i'd flow a strategies, a strategies remote from all of those human beings. in case your newborn's father needs to make certain the toddler badly adequate, he will only ought to flow in the route of you, which I heavily doubt will happen.
2016-11-25 20:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the problem. If it was abuse or infidelity, don't go back. Don't put yourself nor your child in danger. If you think you can work it out, go back, try to work it out, for the baby's sake at least. God can make relationships work. Pray about it. Talk to the baby's father, start spending time with him before you decide.
2007-02-06 07:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if things didn't work out the first time, then they probably never will. those relationships only happen in the movies.
be an adult and move on in your life. include him as your daughter's father and that's it. be a good person and don't bash him, but don't subject yourself to any more heartache.
take care:)
2007-02-06 07:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do in a situation like this is go and see what he has to say is he willing to change those certain ways to make it a family agagin are should you just threaten him that you would get another man to spend time with your baby and you. Also bring up the fact that you would like to work it outonly if he is willing to go out and try it too.
2007-02-06 07:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well it depends on what he done.If he cheated you already took him back 4 times to many.If he hits you,you don't want your child around that.Just because you love someone does not mean you should be together. You will be in my prayers.
2007-02-06 07:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋