TRY GIVING HERS FIRST. 2 GUYS: YOUR WIFE, YOU AND ANOTHER DUDE.
THEN START TALKING THE TALK.
2007-02-06 06:31:20
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answered by sweetbabykitty 3
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Hey, go for it...just be sure that you're BOTH on the same page. Too often it's a matter of the guy trying to talk the woman into something she's not sure about.
As long as you both want to try an experiment, have fun, but... the risks far, far outweigh the benefits.
Too often, feelings of jealousy arise, seeing what you thought you wanted to see and finding out you suddenly feel different about it.
Too often, one person is enjoying themself a lot more than the other...or to put it in the reverse, one person is definitely not enjoying themself.
Very often, performance anxiety will sideswipe you out of nowhere and put a damper on things.
Just talk it over real good before you do it, that's all.
2007-02-06 09:45:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I can understand where you're coming from as you know
nothing about the values of being married. You can do
what you want when you are single , but when married
it's a committment between two people and the third or
fourth or whatever else outside the marriage is automati-
cally eliminated. That's why their is the married life and
the single life, and you can't mix the two. Oh by the way
it's the same WORLDWIDE!!!!!
2007-02-06 16:00:45
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answered by RudiA 6
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That really depends on the couple. If you feel like your wife is up for it then do it. But if everything goes wrong you don't have to blaim anybody else but yourself in allowing it to happen. If you stay loyal and true you might miss out a lot of things. So which one should it be?
2007-02-06 06:41:53
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answered by Anonymous
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As long as both partners are willing and agree on some basic guide lines then I don't see a problem.Whenever one of the partners stray from those guide lines then someone usually gets hurt.Seems everyone is more concerned about getting a little instead of building a strong lasting relationship between two people.
2007-02-06 06:41:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Even in the porn industry, swinging or threesomes tend to break up couples. Marriage is between a man and a woman. If you don't want to act married, don't get married. You will eventually destroy the lives of those involved and GOD help you fools who do this with kids involved.
2007-02-06 06:37:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Who said the fun stops,
I mean you can have fun without having to guess who's the father if someone gets knocked up. Right!
I mean you can have fun without some chick coming back and telling you and your wife you are the dad?
Gee imagine this, you can be a child born from two parents that knew how to have fun without screwing up your life before it was even started.
Hope your future wife has all the fun she can have before and after she meets you with everyone she can. Nothing wrong with that right-o
2007-02-06 06:37:41
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answered by Anonymous
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not everyone has that attitude about swapping/swinging 3sums 4sums more-sums in the USA. There is a small group that enjoys sharing. There are Private clubs for it and message boards swapper net sites. Your not the 1st to get this ideal my friend. My hubby and i have been into swinging for several years. It is not the socially accepted norm but it's not as rare as you think! what consenting adults do is their business. as for the issue of getting pregnant my hubby and i are both fixed "problem solved",.
2007-02-06 06:36:51
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answer #8
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answered by ally'smom 5
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before everything maximum people who fall for married adult adult males like the chase yet dont choose for the committment . you dont choose for who fall in love with wether its with a million or various adult adult males. you'll be i like with those people purely dont act on it have confidence me you do no longer choose for to be the guy that breaks up the marriage undergo in recommendations in the event that they are going to do it with you they are going to do it to you . think of ways you may experience being interior the better halves footwear.maximum married adult adult males won't depart there better halves before everything if the spouse founds out its gonna fee him out the *** in court docket. try to discover somebody whos no longer married
2016-12-17 03:52:30
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answered by endicott 4
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with committed couples (married or otherwise) to have their cake and eat it, too. What they do in their relationship is between them and no one else.
2007-02-06 06:35:05
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answered by User 1
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the easy answer is to many people in the US are closed minded and scared to talk about sex. my hubby and i have lots of fun. we are a swinging couple who like to have fun every now and then. to many people are afraid of others will think of them. i say screw that, as long as you are happy with what your are doing then who cares.
2007-02-06 08:06:31
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answered by mj_jll 2
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