I just found out to day that my boyfriend is talking to another girl. i wrote him a note and ask him, now he knows he can't lie to me anymore. People i need help with myself and this boy, does anyone have any advice? This is the second time things like this has happened....
2007-02-06 06:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him go. Iknow it will hurt but he's simply not trust worthy and it will happen again and again. Be available for someone you truly deserve! He will also continue to do this with all girtlfriends in the future. It a problem with him not you.
2007-02-06 06:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by 10 pts for me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him loose. If this is the second time that this has happened he obviously doesnt respect you and if you let this one slide he will just do it again. i normally dont like giving ppl relationiship advice but this one i have seen way too many times before. dont get caught up any further with a guy that is just goin to lie to you. cut him loose ... there are plenty of fish in the sea
2007-02-06 14:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by BigBallzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just talking if anything else happens then you take action but as for now calm down but if you seriosly cant then talk to him but make sure you say the right things I made the mistake of saying the wrong things and me and that boyfriend broke-up :(
2007-02-06 14:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by happy-soccer-feet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, talking is just that, talking, unless he is bein sexual, personal, or physical with this other girl, then dont worry too much, it hurts yes, but thing is, if u kick up a stink, u will lose him anyways, guys hate women bein jealous, its a male thing, its ok for them apparently, but not for us. just be grateful u found out, cos alot of us dont! is ur choice, either dump him or make him stop, cos if he has done it twice he will do it again, and again to her, and the next 1, be brave and front him, say u dont want to play his games, but be diplomatic, guys are sumtimes too busy to notice what they have lost till it happens, balls in ur court hun, a leopard never changes his spots!!! tc :)
2007-02-06 14:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a graceful exit from this relationship. It would be embarrassing to hang on when he already has someone new he is showing interest in. And since this is the seond time, it sounds as though he is not ready for a steady relationship.
2007-02-06 14:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already know the answer to this if you truly think about it. It is time you move on with your life and leave this man behind. If this is the 2nd time that this has already happened it is only going to keep on happening.
2007-02-06 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just have to trust him maybe is your jealousy that is getting to you but trust me thats normal it happens alot to me except my boyfriend dont talk to any other females like that so all you need to have is RUST and talk to hi about her IN PERSON
2007-02-06 15:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by DoRa + BoOtS 4 eVeR!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, I would find someone else move on, there are other guys out there that will respect you. you don't need him, and he does not deserve you.
2007-02-06 14:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like you are wasting time with this boy.Forget about him and move on.
2007-02-06 18:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what?!? at the end of the day YOUR the one he comes home to YOUR the one he siddes.DOnt stress it
2007-02-06 14:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by britty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋