want to be a girl?

Question

i want to be a girl and have breast and the down there thang but i dont want to have surgure my mom said i can be a girl but have to find a way to dress like a girl and stuff with out surugre ok


ps.im 16

and my mom says that i can be a girl what good stors are there to go to for that stuff

Answer 1

Your mom needs to be taking you to therepy, so you can have some insight on this kind of thinking. Not trying to be rude or say that thinking like this is wrong, but you should talk to someone professional.

Answer 2

I think that you should remain a boy because a lot of people dont like other people who change genders i dont think any one should go through this kind of hatred so just find a girl that you would like to look like and go out with her and this might help your problem but if you still have these feelings think about how people would treat you.

Answer 3

It is OK to feel the way you do. Sometimes nature makes a mistake.

You can find some good sources online that can help you deal with your feelings and can give you ideas on how to dress like a girl and how to hide anything that might need hiding.

Here are just a few to get you started:
http://www.youthresource.com/living/trans.htm
http://www.tsroadmap.com/
http://www.itpeople.org/home.php

Answer 4

ok first thing you NEED to do is go to a therapist. there is a disorder where children are born either male or female, but their brain does not match their sexual identity.

i've searched for it for about 15 minutes but cant find a good site to show you, and its frustrating me..

but you could be suffering from this, and going to a psychologist is going to be a must if you ever want to have a sex change operation.

i am going to keep looking for the site, and i will get back to you as soon as i find it.

Answer 5

you don't have to be a girl to be yourself. there are lots of feminine guys out there i don't understand why somebody would want to mutilate themselves so they can be feminine. Seeing as that would be self-mutilation i can understand why you or your mother wouldn't want the sergury. Even after you get it (if you do) everyone will be able to tell that you're transexual just by looking at your arms, hands, feet, hips, waist, etc it will be much harder living with something like that then living with the fact that you're a man. I think your mother is right, but anyway thats just my 2 cents. hope it helps

Answer 6

Not that i mind but you should really be careful what you post on here! That is really personal and you may not like what people have to say! If i was you i would ask your mom for help! Maybe a close personal girl friend? But i sure wouldnt post it on here!

Answer 7

Look for your local Gay and Lesbian group. They have lots of support there for transgender people.
Good luck in your quest. It won't be easy, but it's important to be who you really are.

Hey, you're going to get responses here from lots of jerks. They don't understand. It's their ingnorance. Ignore them.

Answer 8

well start dressing like a girl.. theres a lot to be trans gendered

Answer 9

you can have the surgure when you grow up and decide that is what you really want. You can't glue it back on if you change your mind later.

Answer 10

Find a woman...that will help you...someone your age...maybe you are just obsessed with a woman's body. Find a girl that will let you look at hers and maybe that will change your mind. Other then that...stuff a bra...