Me and my husband have been married for only 5 munthe but it feels like a year
2007-02-06 06:09:37 · 14 answers · asked by tiffany n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marriage isnt all fun and games, you will argue sometimes! just bc you cry doesnt mean there is a huge problem. but if you are fighting constantly though and he says nasty things to you or threatens you maybe you 2 shoudl try conselling. but if you cry from the occasional argument i wouldnt stress about it! it happenes to every couple.
2007-02-06 06:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by massmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
breathe, the first couple of months are the worse...you have to realize that things will change for both of you. I've been married 3 years and we still have problems, but now we talk about them and we see a counselor, marriage is a full time job alot of things to learn and alot of things to get over. You married him for a reason and as long as you can picture why you married him there is hope.
2007-02-06 06:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly use spell check for months.How does he make you cry?Words or actions?It sounds more like a prison sentence 5 months feeling like one year.I suggest you leave him for a month.This will allow you both time to consider the marriage
2007-02-06 06:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from the situation until you calm down then try to discuss your feelings with him when you are both calm. Take heart, the first year of marriage was the roughest for me!
2007-02-06 06:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by dcanon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do to make you cry? What is the story here? Do you ever make him feel bad at times too? I feel you both need to grow up here and seek marriage counseling and help.
2007-02-06 06:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, talk things over let him know how you feel rather than telling us. If in five months you're fex up what will happen in five years? Talk things over
2007-02-06 06:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by babie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation when we were newlyweds. he will make me cry everyday. he just say things that are mean. i put up with it coz i love him. but looking back, i shouldn't have. so talk to him and dont let him bully you. stand up for yourself girl.
2007-02-06 09:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two of you need to GROW UP.
2007-02-06 06:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two need to work on your communication skills.
2007-02-06 06:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I suppose it depends on what he did to make you cry.
2007-02-06 06:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋