ok so on sunday me and my boyfriend had sex, we didnt use a condom cuz he said that we would only do it for like.. 10 minutes and that he would keep it in and he promised he would. It was my first time having sex, and he said that it was hard for him to keep it in, so im afraid i might be pregnant! i dont know what to do and i can't tell my parents YET. im only 14 years old so i cant buy my own pregnancy tests, please help me! im so scared! i need answers ASAP.
2007-02-06 06:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by azncutie505 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Do you have a Planned Parenthood in your town? If so, they will give you a free pregnancy test. I'd wait at least a couple of weeks to go in because your body releases a hormone called hcg when you're pregnant. In the very beginning, there isn't enough of the hormone to make a pregnancy test show up positive, even if you are. By two weeks after having sex, it should be able to show up. If you are pregnant, they will give you information on keeping it and also information on having an abortion. They will not tell your parents you are pregnant, no matter what you choose to do. However, if you choose to have an abortion, you city may require parent's approval or it may not. You'd have to call and check. If you're not pregnant, they will give the choice of starting birth control. It will be a pill you take everyday at the same time that pretty much guarantees you not not getting pregnant. Sometimes they are free, others not, but they aren't expensive, and you do not have to get your parent's permission to take them. Whatever you find out and choose to do, please make your boyfriend, friend, who ever he is to you, use a condom. Don't chance getting an infection or a disease like aids. No matter how good the sex feels, it can wait if he doesn't have a condom. Be smart and good luck. Everything will be fine.
2007-02-06 06:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by reincarnated/beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question?
First of all - what do you man for only 10 min. and he promised to keep it in? That right there tells me you are way too young and don't know anything about sex. Do you mean keep it in as in he wouldn't ***?
First of all - He should have pulled out if he didn't have on a condom. It doesn't matter how long you do it. Why did you have sex if you didn't have a condom?
You won't know if you are pregnant until you miss a period and a test wouldn't work this early anyway - try not to worry about it though because then you might make your period late and then you will stress even more.
Please don't have sex anymore until you know what you are doing and are older. Do you really want to have a baby with someone you won't even like a month from now? A baby is hard work and even if you get lucky this time it doesn't mean you will the next.
2007-02-06 14:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule number one NEVER listen to the guy. They can and always get you pregnant. They have no control over it no matter what they say. There is a thing called precum that they cannot feel come out and that does get you pregnant. I know you have heard the whole you are too young but the fact is you did it. learn from it. Don't ever let him tell you again you won't get pregnant. Honey it only takes one minute for him to get you pregnant. the 10 minute thing doesn't apply. good luck and please be safe abnd think twice about what you are doing.
2007-02-06 14:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfect example as to why having sex at 14 should not even be an option.. but since youve already completed that.. wait about 2 weeks and take a pregnancy test.. tell him to go buy it for you.. good luck!
2007-02-06 14:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by its_me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off stop having sex your too young and too uneducated. second use condoms from the start every time. third relax its too soon for you to be worrying about pregnancy its only been 2 days, when is your period due
2007-02-06 14:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mum NOW! you are likely to remain sexually active, let her know what happened, she will get to the roof, but at least, she is the best placed to help you and give you proper advice. yes, next days will be the worst, but since you want to play "adult", behave like one. wait until she's alone, tell her you need to talk, and explain what happened. she will scream, then she will help, probably get mad for another couple of weeks, then talk to you about what you should do next. if you can, talk to her, she is your best ally here. otherwise, go to your school nurse, but i think even her cannot do anything wihtout your parents' consent. do not wait until longer. it is not funny to have a baby at 14.
2007-02-06 14:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a school nurse and get the morning after pill. also seek help about contraception for the future, you are way too young to spoil your life
2007-02-06 14:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by mum of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long before you had sex did u see your period. if it was 14 days ago then mayb your safe. it all depends on your ovules and there ovulateing process.check the days your period was to come and let me no.
2007-02-06 14:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the morning after pill. Actually, make your boyfriend buy it because it's more his fault.
2007-02-06 14:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way toooo young to be having sex.
2007-02-06 14:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥proud mommy of 2 girls♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋