My bf cant orgasm by hand jobs. he has to hump something in order to climax. is this normal? how can i help him through this? sex is great, but foreplay is useless. the only way he can *** is through vaginal penetration, or acting how the deed by humping something soft. Pls give me more information, anybody who has a similar situation, please write!
2007-02-06 05:49:09 · 7 answers · asked by Elaine 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
your handjobs might not be very effective. you should ask him
2007-02-06 07:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Billy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its in his mind. im sure if you use a different approach it might work. Ok many years ago in either playboy or hustler forum there was an artical you might be able to find about the many types of hand jobs that were tried and studied in Berkly University Students study off campus. That was in the 80's when I read that.
Perhaps buy the book called Delisious sex might help with alternatives. But I dont see not getting off with a hand job as a major set-back.
2007-02-06 08:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess he is just physcologically against manual stimulation. Not much you can do about it, just let him service you naturally. I take it that he does not masterbate at all, unless by humping. He may also have had a bad personal experience (i.e. molestation) when he was younger or some other bad sexual experience that turns him off from hand stimulation. Don't obsess with it, if it does not bother him, it should not bother you.
2007-02-06 06:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can try giving him one and see how long he can last. but some boyfriends like the one in amercian pie mostly like bolw jobs that is a good way to make him cilmax and some girls use lick the head wiith thier toung or use thier mouth and hand.
2007-02-10 05:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by of highland clan Mackenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing some other stuff while you jack him off. Kiss him, use your tongue on his nipples and/or his nuts. Sit on his face.
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2007-02-06 06:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by RENI 1 · 0⤊ 11⤋