My partner and I are trying to concieve and when we have sex he litterally lasts like 15 seconds and then he already orgasmed and is done. . what is up with that? Could that be the problem with concieving?Am I alone on this or what??
2007-02-06 05:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by 4ever_clueless 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
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2014-09-29 15:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called premature ejaculation. Just like happened to "Jim" in "American Pie." There are several causes, physical and psychological. Two solutions: one is to use a numbing cream so that his penis isn't quite so sensitive (nupercaine is a name that comes to mind, a kind of local anesthetic). The other is is to masturbate to orgasm first, then get aroused again (with your help, of course).
None of this has to do with your getting pregnant, just making the pleasure last longer (which you deserve in any event).
I'm under the impression that the longer a man is aroused, the more semen he produces, but I don't know if the amount of sperm is the same or not. You might try prolonging foreplay as long as possible before insertion. Otherwise, it really doesn't make a lot of difference how long a man takes to ejaculate as far as being able to conceive. When in doubt, have a specialist check you both out.
2007-02-06 07:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but men coming too early is usually a sign that they are wayyyyy too turned on...which if you both know you are trying to get pregnant...is, in a way, very touching.
Sounds like he is really mentally prepared, excited, literally spilling over with anticipation to get this parent thing started!
I would it would be a lot different story if he couldn't get it up at all. So of all the things that could be going on, this doesn't seem like the worst one.
You have gotten a lot of good answers about devices that can help him stay in control a little longer for your sake. But after the ejaculation, make sure you don't flip around too much and cause the swimmers to lose their way. You want to keep the semen IN around your cervix. Maybe what you can do is pause after he does his thing, then go clean up a little bit, and have him give you oral or manual stimulation...if he gets back into it (you can help) you can go with round 2 intercourse.
2007-02-06 06:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by musicimprovedme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he always that way before you started "trying"? He could feel too much pressure in actually trying to make a baby. Him losing it early wouldnt' be a problem in conceiving unless he's firing blanks. You 2 sound like you need to have a long talk and make sure you are on the same page about having a baby right now. Some guys will say they do to make the wife happy and actually have reservations about it causing them to be too stressed out to perform well.
2007-02-06 05:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is not the problem with conceiving, and you shouldn't be embarrassed. A lot of men experience relatively premature ejaculation when not using a condom (the sensation is quite different). However, if he's ejaculating, then you are receiving sperm. If you have issues with his premature ejaculation, however, have him try to build up to the peak of orgasm while masturbating or in any other sexual activity and then stop before orgasm; repeat the exercise several times. This could help him last longer.
2007-02-06 05:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone a lot of men have problems with this. You can talk with your doctor to see if anything can be done. Do I think it's causing problems with you ttc not necessarily. He needs to try self control for the experience to be better for you. They say it's better for a woman to orgasm due to the tightening of the vaginal walls and holding the sperm in there a little longer. But, it won't keep you from ttc.
2007-02-06 05:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that it helps to conceive if the woman also orgasms, the muscle movement helps 'swish' the sperm in the right direction.
Without wanting to offend your partner, would it be possible for you to acheive this after he has done his bit?
A kind of embarrassing solution to a not so embarrassing problem!
Good Luck!
2007-02-06 05:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with not concieving...but it sounds awfully disappointing. Having an orgasm can actually help YOU conceive...you should try some techniques to make him last longer.
2007-02-06 05:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Waiting and Wishing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him use a cock ring or drink a few beers. Don't put your arms around him or say horny things. In fact as he's trying to have sex with you, you say things like you are worthless and no good as a sex partner and smack him in the face.
2007-02-06 05:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Joe T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That shouldn't affect conceiving but to make things better for you why not try cock rings. They will make him last longer for you. Good luck
2007-02-06 05:48:09 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋