I have a big problem and i need help i want a boy friend but i don't know how to tell anyone besides my sister

Question

i don't know how to tell the friends that i want to tell.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

From the question that I have read about you, you are a young female that wants to "get" a boyfriend. Having a boyfriend can be the most exciting thing in the world, but it's not all that it's cracked up to be. You and your "boyfriend" have to make the relationship work out, otherwise there will be no such thing. Focus on the most important things in life such as getting an education. Don't worry about boys right now. Good things come to those who wait and don't rust the whole process. The last thing that you want right now is to make yourself look desperate and that's not the kind of reputation that you want. I wouldn't tell my friends about wanting a boyfriend if I were you. They would get all up in your business and that's not something that you would want for yourself. Your time will come. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are but the first thing I would say is that you have to be ready to have a boyfriend before it should happen. It also sounds as if your sister may be older. She's a good start, but you could talk to your mom. She can tell you how she and your father got together. Just wanting a boyfriend doesn't mean it magically happens. And it isn't something they announce on the intercom at school so everyone knows your looking either. At some point in your life you will be approached by a young man who asks for your phone number or asks if you are available to go out Friday/Saturday, that kind of thing. You could start "pre-dating" by going out with groups of friends (both boys and girls), to the movies, bowling, skating, that kind of stuff. Eventually the real boyfriend/girlfriend stuff happens naturally, don't rush it. Also, make sure you know yourself well before starting to date. You must serious know how far you would take any relationship before you do something you would regret (possibily for the rest of your life). Abstinance is hard sometimes but it is worth it. It's like saying no to drugs, you should be proud of yourself for doing it! Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 3

From the nature of your question, I'm assuming you are fairly young. You say you want a boyfriend....not a particular boyfriend. It sounds like you feel like you are missing out on something. Trust me, you will have plenty of boyfriends but you have to quit thinking of a BF as a thing you have to "get".

Answer 4

Having a boyfriend isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Consider this....you have friends right? Well, if you can find a guy that you can be yourself around (just like when you are with your friends), then that guy is worth keeping. Just let him know upfront that you'd like to date.