what should i do i have a baby and my babys father loves me sopusebly we had been having alot of problems i was living with him but we have left each other like 4times because we keep on fighting alot for little things he is a really jealous person and i love him but sometimes i just feel confused and i dont want to be with him right now am not with him he wants me to go with him but my family doesnt like him because all the problems we had been having at the same time i want to go with but at the same time i dont i donr know what to do am scared that we are going to still have problems like always what should i do?
2007-02-06 05:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by chikita9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your baby should be your first concern. is the baby in a safe and loving environment. make that your primary concern...everything else will work itself out. be strong mother for your baby. peace
2007-02-06 05:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, you need to be there for your baby. You have to make sure that your child is well protected, fed, happy and secure, and you have to do whatever it takes to make that happen. Your relationship with your baby's father is also about this child, it's well being and future. If you two cannot work out a stable, calm healthy environment in which to raise your child, then you are better off living with your family and trying to get yourself on your feet by continuing your education and getting a job.
2007-02-06 13:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is easy, make sure your baby is in a happy, secure and loving atmosphere, tell the father that the baby is your #1 priority and the fighting and constant tension and problems is not good for the baby and you. If he loves you he will make efforts to change if not, you have yourself and your child and a family who cares very much for you
2007-02-06 13:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is do you love him enough to try agian? dont get theripy its the begining of the end lock both of yourselves in a room and work it out! do it it works give your friend the key snd tell not to give it to you untill you sorted it out becuase its so easy just to slam the door when your mad now you cant!
2007-02-06 13:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT EVER U DO U NEED TO THINK ABOUT IT, DONT EVER SAID I STAYED FOR THE KIDS, KIDS WILL BE FINE, IF U WANT TO STAY, STAY BECAUSE U WANT TO, LOTS OF WOMEN SAY THEY STAYED FOR THE KIDS, BUT IT RUINED THEY LIFES, LOTS OF SINGEL MOM'S DO WELL SO STRUGGEL BUT, WHAT I CAN TELL U IS GET CHILD SUPPORT AND DO IT ON UR OWN, THAT WAY U WONT HAVE TO STUGGEL AND U WILL BE ALRIGHT
2007-02-06 13:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional assistance to help you both understand how to improve your relationship.....OR if your relationship is worthy of continuing to be a relationship for all concerned.
2007-02-06 13:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't hurt or cause problems and unhappines.
2007-02-06 13:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Peachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋